- 4 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
Okay so I am watching the wedding singer and get to the part about “church toungue” and I have to wonder how most people’s first kiss went / will go.
I remember when I was dating my first “real” bf (after I was allowed to date at 16) and everyone thought we would SOOOO get married. His mom told me the story of how she made his dad practice kissing so it would be just right the day of our wedding. The pastor from our church would tap his foot 3 times and if you did not stop kissing, he would not be happy. When my ex-husband and I kissed, from what I remember, it was very quick and I believe I pushed him away after a minute. I remember everyone laughing. I remember when a cousin of mine got married, he had probably NEVER kissed anyone (even his future wife) he kissed her through the veil and all. When the youth pastor at my church got married last summer I thought it was WAY too much for a church wedding and the youth pastor, but who am I to judge?
I know with my FI it will be more passionate and more heartfelt than when I married my first husand, but looking back over the whole relastionship we have a more passionate relationship in comparison. Because the love is different.
I am just wondering who thinks that it should be more reserved and who does not care?