(Closed) How would you feel if you SO saw…

posted 5 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: How would you feel if your SO saw everything you've ever written on here?!
    Mortified! It's between me and the other bees! I would hate for him to see my rants! : (10 votes)
    9 %
    I'm happy for him to read everything I write. There's nothing I wouldn't say to his face. : (77 votes)
    71 %
    Indifferent. Oh well it might make him pull his finger out and sort his sh*t out! : (22 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I wouldn’t care.  He knows everything anyway!

    Post # 4
    9618 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    Honestly no, I wouldn’t mind, I have told him about pretty much every thread I have started. Including the ones that talk about him, so I would be fine with it, but he might be a little surprised to see how much I have actually been on.

    Post # 5
    1691 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Hmmm I don’t think I’d be in trouble or upset, except if he saw the pics of my dress!! He knows how Ifeel about the shit he does to drive me crazy or what his family does that annoys me so I think I’m safe! But then, I didn’t sleep with my boss and I’m not making eyes at the postie!

    Post # 6
    14498 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I have a rule, don’t put anything in print that you don’t want on the front page of the NY Times.  That stands for me here too.  Darling Husband has read WB in the past and I pretty much tell him everything.  When I was planning, he would sometimes read things over my shoulder or comment on dress, centerpieces, or guy problems. 

    Post # 7
    2523 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    He would probably find most of what I write hilarious anyway.

    Because he thinks I’m a doozy.


    Post # 8
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @Torrid:  🙂

    Post # 9
    5786 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I wouldn’t care (He would probably be bored to tears). I make it a point not to air my dirty laundry on here, don’t need 40 posters telling me to “RUN” and that everything is a “red flag” 😉

    Post # 10
    7561 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I always tell him stuff I write. I wouldn’t post something on a public forum that I couldn’t say to his face. 

    Post # 11
    2607 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I would be fine with him seeing everything I’ve posted thus far.  If I ever needed to post anonymously for some reason that involved him, THEN I might be embarrassed if he saw what I wrote.  

    Post # 12
    963 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @LGenz:  lol I know what you mean!

    I would somewhat embarrassed if he saw my posts. Primarily because he would see how much time I waste on here 😛

    Post # 13
    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

    I’d be embarrassed… It’s all stuff he knows (I very rarely if ever “rant” about him), but embarrassing for him to know I told the internet!

    Post # 14
    2414 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I don’t have anything to hide per se…. I don’t think I’ve posted anything here that would want to hide from Darling Husband. But I wouldn’t want him to see my posts. For me, WeddingBee falls into the category of “girl talk.” It’s kind of sort of private. Sort of.

    Post # 15
    1992 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Flutters:  lol my guy would totally tease me! I don’t really rant on here but my indecisiveness about all the stuff for the wedding (dress regret, hair/make up, accessories, bridesmaid drama, etc!) comes out in FULL FORCE and he only gets a little tidbit of it (because I’m sure he doesn’t really care lol) so I wouldn’t be embarrassed persay but I would just be like… “yuuuup! it was really that bad!” haha

    Its nice to have a big girly outlet like this, esp when your own girlfriends might hit a little too clsoe to home or get judgey… if that makes sense?


    …oh how I love the hive!

    Post # 16
    1578 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

    It’d be fine. I tell him everything I write about on here haha

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