(Closed) How would you handle it

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: If your Husband wasn't making you climax would you
    Tell him the truth : (44 votes)
    96 %
    Fake it and boost his ego : (2 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    He knows he can’t make me c*m and I really don’t care. So it doesn’t matter to us. (We only have sex a couple of times a month because we both are crippled with arthritis in the hips)

    Post # 4
    2104 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Unless you never want to orgasm again for the rest of your marriage, you tell him!

    Post # 5
    11395 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I would tell him. You two should be completely open and honest. And honestly if you are not being satisfied I don’t see that boosting anyone’s ego in the long run.

    Some women can only orgasm through the clit. Try different things (oral) and see what works for you. You can do this after he finishes. Then both people are happy! Also, you can rub yourself down there while you two are doing it. There are so many different things you can try before just giving up and faking it through. Good lcuk! 🙂

    Post # 6
    5491 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2019

    Honest is the best policy. Tell him or else he will never make the effort in the future, if you know what I mean….

    Post # 7
    817 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Um, we are in this for life??? He will know what’s going on down there 🙂 Seriously, though, sex is not only fun and about pleasure, it brings two people together in an intimate way that no other people in their lives get to connect to them. If you aren’t satsified, you may become resentful. Sex is not the basis of a marriage, but it’s something only you two share and should be fulfilling for both partners.

    Post # 8
    440 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Depending on how old you are you’ve got 30-50 years of this to go. Don’t let it be an unsatisfied sex life. If you can get to the big O on your own, then your half way there.


    Post # 9
    8884 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Talk to him, but be gentle. Tell him how good it feels but that you’d like to try some other things to get you off.  I had this convo with my man early on b/c I don’t get off from just sex. He always takes care of me after 🙂

    Post # 10
    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I’d talk to him and guide him.  How is he ever going to learn what DOES get you off if he thinks he is already doing it because you fake it?

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