How Would You Handle This? (Long)

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

What a mess! Ugh! Sorry you have to deal with this!

Post # 4
2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I know this isn’t an option for you, but I think I would be running the other direction from all of this.

No, you did not overreact at all. Chances are this woman has her own emotional issues. Based on your FI’s age, I am assuming she is grown and well-past the high school days of doodling hearts with his name in them.

Post # 5
3197 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

You did the right thing.  Honestly no one should listen to their kids when it comes to who they should love.  His daughter is insecure and wants her dad to be with the person she’s bonded with already.  You living elsewhere as caused her to not know you as well as this woman who probably texts and fb’s her a lot.  

Also, I think you should be worried about this woman.  Perhaps ask your FI what are her mental issues exactly.  She’s basically stalking him and taking pictures of him without his knowledge seems pretty bizarre.  

Post # 7
2136 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

He’s your fiance and you have a right to a secure relationship. I think you should keep going about your visits normally, and worry about how the woman treats you if/when you cross paths. 

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