How would you react if your wedding was crashed by complete strangers?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

As long as there were empty seats (no-shows, last minute cancellations, etc.), and I was paying for 2 people anyway, I wouldn’t care. So often at weddings guests start to clear out after the dessert course is served. Of coure, if their behavior was questionable, that’s a different story. 

Post # 4
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576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I would be upset that the crashers think this type of behavior is okay, and have them quietly escorted out based on that. I don’t reward bad behavior.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I wouldn’t be ok with this. I was a bridesmaid at my friend’s wedding 2 years ago and she had 2 people crash her wedding. By the time we realize and got scorted out, half of her cards were missing. Including mine. 

I didn’t appreciate someone else cashing my check of my hard earned money. 

If I see crashers at mine, I’ll personally kick them out myself. 

Post # 6
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1662 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

MrsEdamame:  I’m a fairly blunt person, I’d ask them to leave myself. Dress and all. You can pretty much get away with anything in a wedding dress. No way to know if they’re looking for an opportunity to lift the card box, which had a fair bit of money in it.

Post # 8
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3598 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’d be contacting the police and trying to press charges for theft.  It’s a private party, not a free for all.

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