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My first time was when I was 14 with my boyfriend at the time who was 18. I was a freshman and he was a senior. I remember being in pain and uncomfortable for days (he was, very well endowed) and it was pretty much how I imagined it would be, except I thought I would be older. I dont regret it because I really loved him and it felt right.
I know a lot of women are saving themselves for marriage (I have always lived by the "test drive then buy" theory when it comes down to sex and relationships), but I was curious...how/when was your first time?
I was just about 19 with my high school sweetheart. It lasted about 2 minutes and was awful. LOL.
I was 17 and with my now DH. It was the night BEFORE prom (as opposed to the cliched prom night). It was pretty bad lol. Very painful, and I'm not entirely sure if I was quite ready, but I don't regret it. I just wish we didn't have to be sneaky about it and could have had some time to go slow and maybe not have been on a couch... DH was very good about it though. He was gentle.
It was with my college boyfriend and I was 19. It happened on an air bed, was short, not great and he mentioned a few times what his mother would think. Yikes! Despite all of this I do not regret it. I know that we both cared about each other and it was one of those crazy life experiences.
Bet it doesn't surprise any of you that we broke up a year later and issues with his mother were a portion of the problems with our relationship!
I was 18 and about a month away from leaving for college for the first, had been dating my high school sweetheart for 2 years. It happened in his bed when everyone was away for the week. We actually planned to lose it to eachother like a week before and picked that day because no one would be home :p
I don't regret it, although we broke up 2 years later. It hurt and was awkward but not terrible because we had been dating so long so and I trusted him completely.
Ours was during our senior year in college in his bedroom. Aww.
Mine was when i was 16..with my now husband..it was BEAUTIFUL and not painful at all the only issue was he did not have any protection so we did not do it all the way...2nd time and from then on always using protection and it has only gotten better and better :) I have had boyfriends (with two of them lasting over year and half) but none i could trust enough..so i have only been with my now husband...and i would not have it any other way :)
It was when I was 16 with my then bf. It was pretty uncomfortable. It only hurt for a seond or 2, but I didn't start to like it until about the the 7th or 8th time. lol.
I was 16, he was 18. It felt GREAT. Maybe if it hadn't felt good I wouldn't have done it again, but when it felt so good, well... (You know what I'm talking about!)
I was sooo tired of being the only virgin out of my group of friends so I just wanted to lose it. I had just turned 18 and was a freshman at college. Not that I wasn't picky, but well the guy was definately a regrettable choice. The sad thing is that my now-fiance and I were talking at that point but just not dating. If only I had waited for him to finally ask me out!
I was 18, with an ex (boyfriend at the time) that I completely regret doing it with. Oh well.
We were both 17, it was with my now-fiance - it was painful and awkward! Thank goodness it gets better, right?
We were both 17, and he was my first real love! It didn't feel the greatest but it meant so much to us to be eachothers firsts. We were in my bed, after school one day. My highschool sweet heart! Although im engaged to someone else and love my FH with everything I have, I still think about him and then from time to time.
i was 16... with my first serious boyfriend and it was short and not good haha. i just remember thinking... "this is not how it happens on tv!" needless to say we were both inexperienced and basically had no clue how to make it good for oneanother so yea. i dont regret it at all though!
I was 17 with my first "love". It was awful! the worst pain ever, even worse than having my csection. Luckily it only lasted a couple minutes lol. After a year of going out with him I thought that was what it was supposed to be like. But I sure was surpised when I found out how good it can actually be.
My FI is handsdown the best i've been with.
I guess im old fashioned even though both of my sisters were pregnant when they got married (its funny bc both weddings were in the works before they found out) waiting until your married is a personal choice. my boyfriend and i decided to wait and when we knew we were in this for the longrun, we decided to make love for the first time, bc i knew he was the only man i wanted to be with for the rest of my life, and i really am glad i waited. now we are gettin' hitched!
It didn't work! I was 19 and it was with a boy friend who I'd been with for 1.5 years at that point. Throughout that whole three year relationship he had problems staying hard and that time was no exception. Poor guy, I hope he doesn't have those problems anymore.
Although it certainly wasn't anything special I certainly don't regret it. At that point I really just wanted to be rid of the whole virginity thing and he was someone I could really trust.
My first time was with my now Fiance. I was 15, he was 17 during spring break. We were in his bed and even though it was the most pain-free, it was still absoltuly amazing and I wouldn't trade that moment for the world! :)
oh god, and the bad memories flood back to me
I was 19, on holidays with my Boyfriend on the QLD Gold Coast. It was awful and over quick. I was with him for 2 years. I never had a sexual experience with hiim that I enjoyed. The relationship was toxic, he was way to controlling.
Loads of regrets about that decision, and glad I haven't thought of him in a long long time.
And while I regret the decision I made then, I don't regret where I am now so thats all that matters.
It was when I was in HS in a hotel room. I dont even remember the sex it was so quick but I remember I hurt so bad after! I felt like i had to pee every 30 sec!
It was 3 weeks after my 16th birthday with a boy I had been dating for 6 months at that time... I wound up dating him for four years, so I definitely don't regret my decision. It was never that good, but definitely good practice 
I saved myself for my husband - it just never felt right before him. We didnt wait until marriage though - we waited until we were engaged! It felt right once he proposed!
I was 16 and I was with my now FI, the first time we tried it hurt too bad so we stopped, but the second time was fine (I took a bunch of painkillers before, I have no idea if that worked or not, but we didn't have an issue).. It was in the back of my car, and very quick, it was the first time for both of us, and while we should have waited longer, I'm glad we didn't, because then he probably wouldn't be my first (we ended up splitting up and I was with one other person, who I dated for four years).. Now we're back together and getting married and though we have been with other people, I'm glad we were each other's firsts and can say that :)
I had just turned 17 and it was with my now husband. We weren't dating at the time though...just hooking up occasionally, but I sort of knew there was a future with him and preferred to lose it to him than anyone else. It was awful...I had accidentally gotten unlubricated condoms, so it was beyond painful. Then he didn't call me for like a year. NOT a good experience! When we did finally start talking again, he had a LOT of apologizing to do!
I was 18, and it was with a guy I had been dating for about 7 months. It was good! I was ready and it was not awkward or painful at all.
Funny thing is, I saw him at the restaurant where I had my bachelorette party! He was still really nice and funny, and married with two kids. He sent a fruity martini over to my table. He was a good one, and it took me a long time to get over him after we broke up.
I was 23 and with my (now) fiance. It wasn't very good. Kinda awkward and uncomfortable, but I wasn't nervous and it wasn't terrible because we'd done oral quite a bit before then. But it definitely got better later.
I was 19-going-on-45. I lived in my sorority house and was surrounded by ahem non-virgins. I felt like I didn't fit in.
The dude, well, he was a mess--still is. I think he was in the neighborhood of 25 at the time and I really cared about him, but afterwards he called all of his friends and said, "Dude! I just did a girl that looks like Kelly Clarkson!" SO, needless to say I pretty much was like WTF is wrong with you?! I haven't spoken to him since.
I wish I would've waited just a little longer until I met my ex-boyfriend. I loved him tremendously and he was the second guy I was with. But, live and learn!!!
Unfortunately, I have no recollection of what it felt like because I was so horrified of how he acted after ward.
AND I'm pretty sure I don't look like Kelly Clarkson.
It was my senior year of high school with a guy that I had been dating, we did it and I never even told him it was my first time, he probably still doesn't even know!
oooh my sweet 16th birthday. thats all i really wanted. i don't regret it at all (as with any of my past relationships). it didn't hurt but i don't remember it being particularly great. oh, teen love.
I was 19, with my now-husband, in college. It was AMAZING! It didn't hurt at all, in fact it felt awesome. To this day it is one of my "top 10" lol.
I was 2 months shy of 18, and it was with my first love, we had been together for 3 months. It was awkward because I'm so Type A that I had it all planned out, so we were both a bit nervous. I remember there was this awkward moment when we were both naked and we both had this look of panic because neither of us knew what to do! I mean, we knew to basics, but neither of us had any 'moves'. I laugh when I think back to it. It didn't hurt because we used a tonne of lube and he went slow, but it didn't feel great either. And even though eventually that relationship ended, the same guy asked me out again a year later and now he is my FI! So FI was my first, but not my only, and nobody cheated! :)
I was 22 and it was on my wedding night. It hurt a lot and was very uncomfortable, but not in any way was it a bad experience. It was extremely important for me to wait for marriage, for both religious and personal reasons.
I was a little later in life. I was 20 and it was with my BF of 3 months. I knew I wasn't waiting for the romanticized "love," just someone I felt comfortable with. I waited for a while because I kind of put a pressure on myself to wait longer than my mom did (she wasn't exactly the best role model).
It was this past New Years Eve at his apartment. I was 23 at the time and it was the first time for both of us.
I had considered some of my exes in high school, but for some reason I knew I would regret it if I had sex with any of those guys since I never felt truly serious about them. I'm glad I waited though, because my first time was when I was 19 and a freshman at college and it was with my now FI though. Despite how incredibly awkward and uncomfortable, and the fact we had only been dating a month, it was awesome. It's only gotten better since then!
It was with my high school sweetheart. I was 17 and he was 18...it was very sweet but only lasted a couple of minutes.
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