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FI and I (well, mostly just me) have been searching the internet endlessly in an attempt to find a unique-ish wedding venue. We are hoping to get married this fall (September, October, even early November is a possibility). I know, I know...most venues are filling up quickly. FI lives out of town, so its tough to get any planning done. He will be visiting next weekend, and we're hoping to visit as many places as possible and see whats available and HOPEFULLY set a date (!). Anyway...any suggestions on a more "rustic" venue in the Hudson Valley? We're trying not to venture too far from the Poughkeepsie/New Paltz area. Locust Grove and Benmarl Winery are on my list, but any other suggestions would be so helpful! I kind of like the idea of having an outside caterer (we want to have a more casual, BBQ-ish style food at the reception).

We're hoping to spend no more than $5.000 for a venue (or $85/pp if food is included)

Thanks :)