(Closed) So sad about everything

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry. That must be difficult between not having the people you want there AND not being able to have it look the way you want.

Do your grandparents have a computer? I know this is a long shot and totally not the same but maybe you could do something creative with Skype so your g-parents can see the ceremony live? Just tossing out ideas.

Post # 6
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2098 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m sorry. 🙁 I’m 35 & feel I’m losing all my gf’s due to life & my engagement. My parents are weird & treat my getting married as a big inconvenience. We are paying ourselves, too. 

i just keep remembering the wedding is just a representation of our choosing to be together & all that need to be there is he & I. I keep turning to him with my sadness & frustration. And I cry a lot. That seems to help. 

 

Hugs. 

Post # 7
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108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Awww, I totally understand your being upset about everything! I am sorry to hear about your grandparents and I can imagine that must be hard for you. Although you can’t do anything about the size of your family, you need to speak to your FI and explain to him how you’re feeling.  You guys may not be able to afford an elaborate wedding but it is important to compromise so that you both are happy.  I am in a similar situation…my FI’s family is huge and mine is tiny…just know that you are not alone with this one!

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