- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
When my now husband and I first started dating he said that he wanted to have more children, he has two daughters from first marriage. We had decided that we wanted three more max hoping for a boy lol. In may of this year I told him that I wanted to have a baby, he had me take plan b a couple times and i didnt want to do that anymore, and he said he wants to get married first. We decided on September2012 🙂
Before the wedding we decided we would start ttc summer 2013, the nerves started lol. Last Monday I had my yearly appointment and beforehand I asked my husband if he was sure about next summer bc I had some questions for the doctor and he said let’s start in march! I was beyond excited! When I went to the dr I had bloodwork done to make sure I was healthy enough to have a child and I got a different type of birth control pills to use until we started.
Skip to Friday and Saturday night, all he kept saying was well if you have a baby we can’t get up and go and just do whatever we want, keep in mind we have his two daughters every single weekend of the year! And just kept saying how we couldn’t do this or that or that. It really hurt my feelings! I asked him if he wanted me to go back to the dr and get the bc shot, the dr told me it can take a year to get pregnant after the three month dose, he said ya 🙁 Last night I asked him if I didn’t get the shot or start my new pills, I have horrible side effects and can’t find one that I don’t with, if he would wear condoms!his reply was I guess I’ll have to and rolled over and went to sleep.
I don’t think I’m looking for sympathy I just wanted to get it out, I was down in the dumps all day yesterday and he could tell, I just blamed my period. Just hurt, ugh life really knows how to knock you down sometimes. :'(