- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2011
your future SIL. If they were engaged or married themselves then it would be rude as he would be or soon will be a member of the family as well, but since that is not the case, she should respect your decision in having a very small wedding
SHE is most definitely being rude. If they were married, I think it would be a different story because then he would be considered “family”. It sound like she is throwing a temper tantrum because she isn’t getting her way! I’d ignore her as best as you can!
Good luck and ENJOY your day! 😀
Thank you! I replied to her saying this:
It’s a great feeling to get crap like this two days before what is supposed to be the happiest day of our lives and we get what — damn Facebook drama.
We are going out to eat after the ceremony. If you guys want to leave after that and not go out to eat you can.
And think about your brother’s feelings. You are more concerned about being with your boyfriend than spending maybe an hour out of your day with your brother, who you see less than your boyfriend, on his wedding day.”
Yikes. I wouldn’t have sent that. The thing I have learned first about in-laws is to let the DH handle it. You sunk to her level. Your FI should tell her how he feels otherwise you’re just the “brothers wife” causing drama.
Your FSIL was definitely being rude–But did you post that reply publicly on FB?
Hate to say it, but I agree with mwitter80. Probably something that would’ve been best handled by your FI.
Though I do agree your future SIL was being a brat. She sounds very young and immature, based on your description of this situation. I’d try not to take it too hard that she’s acting this way. Please try to enjoy the day anyway!
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