Husband doesnt last long enough.

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

 

wifebritt:  Does it change at all when he’s been drinking? 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

onthefritz:  +1. also maybe wearing a condom would help?

i feel like we need more info- how long has he been sexually active, how long have you been having sex together, etc?  i personally will never orgasm just from sex, we just use my vibrator during sex. usually lasts around 10 min and by that point i’m ready to get it finished. 😉

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

ibhad an ex with that issue.  He tried everything to make it better with no luck.  He finally talked to his doc about it and the doc prescribed a med that he could take an hour or so before sex and he could last as long as he wanted.  The med he used that worked for him was paxil I think.  Also, he used vicodin a few times and that worked great as well but can be addictive.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

sleepyhead22:  +1 this. totally this. 

I have never climaxed from vaginal intercourse. A lot of women dont. Most of us need clitoral stimulation some how, some way.

penetration should be last on the menu. he should take care of you first, however he needs to do that.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Was this something that changed only after you married him? If not, you probably worked through this beforehand. Keep in mind that going to another man for sex, regardless of having your husband’s permsision, could very well lead to huge consequences within your relationship. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

Is he willing to help you orgasm in other ways? As long as he’s interested in getting you off too you guys will be able to work this out

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Have you tried using a vibrator during sex? What about him using it on you? What about oral and he just brushes his teeth afterwards?

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Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

Using a vibrator may be your best bet. If you start with him using it on you, then when you get kind of close let him enter you, you both may be able to orgasm at the same time. A vibrator + penetration is pretty amazing in my opinion. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Have him use the vibrator on you as foreplay?

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

wifebritt:  Have you and your DH gone to a doctor about this? Might be something a medical professional can/should look into.

Good Luck 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

 

wifebritt:  Does he masturbate? I’ve heard there are ways men can “train” themselves to last longer. Basically getting himself almost there then stopping himself then working himself up again, over and over and practice it often. I’m sure there is a more scientific way to go about this 😉 I’ve also heard that if a guy masturbates shortly before intercourse they will last longer “for the second round”.

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