husband praised god when his wife miscarried.. in the grocery store.

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

What would I do? I would have left him long ago.

Options:

Divorce – she doesn’t want to do

Abortion – she doesn’t want to do

Adoption – she doesn’t want to do

Keep it – her husband will divorce her, which she doesn’t want

No matter what she decides its going to result in something that she doesn’t want. She needs to go over her priorities and decide what is most important to her and decide from there.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Dude, wtf. One of the most important things you should go into a marriage knowing is your stance on kids. This sounds like a plot of a bad soap opera.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

What I would do is not marry a Grade A douchebag in the first place.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@adoc86:  I agree with this she needs to decide whats most important for me it would be the baby over the man especially since he sounds like a major douche bag.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would get a back bone, tell him i want the child, keep it and divorce his asshole face. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

If you’re wondering what that loud thud was, it was the sound of my lower jaw hitting the floor as I read this.  WTF?  She needs to get out of that relationship.

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

He sounds like a douche, regardless of his feelings on children.  But, she sounds like an idiot for staying.  So there we go.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I read the article, there was a follow up by the OP that says that he did have a vasectomy but apparently it didn’t work very well. (If he ever did actually have one). I loved Prudence’s response the first time when it said she should’ve gotten out of the marriage the first time she got pregnant but this woman obviously does not want to leave him. Very sad. 

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@KC-2722:  –> 1 MILLION TIMES THIS:

What I’m also shocked about is that they chose to stay together in agreeance  that they wouldn’t have a child, yet took NO steps to permanently prevent that  from happening.

The whole situation is a disaster.

AND THIS… particularly this part:

I would also leave, actually I would’ve left the day the man I loved fell to  his knees in a public place while I miscarried our child. How traumatizing, both  losing a baby and not having the support of your husband!

As others have said this guy is a FIRST CLASS DOUCHE-CANOE…

He doesn’t deserve her

And she deserves soooo much more

Let’s hope for her sake (and the sake of the child she is currently carrying) that she wakes up and smells the coffee this time !!

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As someone who was in an abusive relationship for a long time, and knowing what it is to lose sight of oneself & one’s self worth… I’m going to go out on a limb here and say the same is probably true of her situation.

NONE OF THIS IS HEALTHY OR NORMAL.

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@KC-2722:  I completely agree and also wonder why they didn’t use condoms,bc,sterlization something to prevent what they supposedly didn’t want. I think maybe she agreed to stay married but still wanted kids hence no bc.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

@KC-2722:  I can’t see how anyone would still want to remain married to a man who praised God for a miscarriage.  I’m not sure anything would turn me off more.  I’d have left him right then and there.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I read that article last week, and it ACTUALLY made me cry! There is no WAY I could stay with DH if he thanked God for a miscarriage!

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