Post # 1
My husband does not understand my love for Weddingbee! He doesn’t care that I love it, but he doesn’t understand why I still use it despite already being married. I explain to him the different boards, yada, yada, but I still get the impression he thinks I’m a psycho that likes to look at wedding stuff or something lol. But one time in an attempt to understand it, he read one of my responses and asked if “DH” meant “Dumb Husband” lol. Anyone else’s “Dumb Husband” clueless? There’s gotta be stories!
Post # 3
My Dear Husband loves that I’m on WB. I tell him about the threadsabout bad boyfriends or abusive husbands. I’m so grateful for my wonderful guy, I just hug and hug him and tell him how wonderful he is.
Post # 4
My husband knows about the website. We have a code name for this website (I’m pretty sure most people who use this site wouldn’t appreciate it) and he encourages me to use it only because he really enjoys hearing some of the stories. Not the good ones.
Post # 5
DH likes it. He knows I’m really far away from my family, and knows that I read the married, nesting, and wellness boards. I sometimes tell him about crazy things I read or interesting things I’ve seen on here. He’s totally down with it, and knows I’ve learned a lot.
I think he appreciates that I try to use WB as a way to be better at being married.
Post # 6
@Hyperventilate: haha, now I’m curious! Come on, it’s all in good fun. ; )
Post # 7
DH knows I go on it and hates it. Lol. He says I spend too much time on here, which has declined greatly recently! He says I have no reason to be on WB anymore since we’ve been married for almost 6 months now. I just can’t stay away. I don’t post as often or go on here as often as I have in the past, but I can’t stop completely. He has threatened to block the site on several occasions.
Post # 8
@Mrs.LemonDrop: My husband and I call Weddingbee “The Trainwreck.”
Granted, it has sparked some discussion amongst my husband and I in good ways, too. Usually social/political issues, we discussed the thread about being charged by your weight for a plane trip (He is an aircrewman so this is relevent to his/our interests), we’ve discussed etiquette and traditions (Both wedding and otherwise) so it isn’t all bad.
But that’s mostly all he is interested in. When he’s deployed and we’re on Skype he’ll go, “Anything good on the trainwreck today?”
Post # 9
@Hyperventilate: haha. I think most of the DHs seem to find the drama posts the most interesting.
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Post # 11
My husband thinks it is funny, but always wants to know what I am typing when I am commenting and gets annoyed when I don’t tell him. He finally stopped bugging me when I told him all the TMI details that are in the TTC boards. Worked like a charm.
Post # 12
Hubs asked me once why I was still on it and I told him there’s stuff on it for after the wedding too, and he was like ah that’s cool! *goes back to video games* XD He didn’t really care at all XD he was just curious
Post # 13
I talk to him about it all the time. He loves that I have a wonderful support system through the bee’s while we face infertility. I come home with suggestions and he loves when one of my lovies gets their BFP! Gives us both hope I think 🙂
Post # 14
My husband knows and he’s really sweet to me about it. He likes it that everyone tries to help each other get through things; this place is a support system. It’s unique!
Post # 15
My DH did wonder a little at first until I explained there is a baby section now that I’m pregnant it’s very helpful.
Post # 16
DH knows I’m still here. I think a part of him thinks I’m a bit silly but the other part of him enjoys hearing about drama posts (and sometimes we discuss more debate-type topics between ourselves too).