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    Jlo143    May 22, 2013  

    Hi i ordered a dress i liked online A size i was certain was gonna fit since i had tried on similar styles in davids bridal same size and to my horror the dress did not fit when i received it. I am in love with the dress, its everything i wanted...its so depressing. I cant return it at this point but since i wanted to lose 20 lbs, just wanted your opinion if you guys think even by losing the weight do you think the dress would end up fitting me. Its the allure 8809 mermaid dress size 10. Want honest opinions...omg this is such an embarrasing picture!

     
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    HisMoon    July 14, 2013  

    Breathe! Can you only tell from the corset that it doesn't fit perfectly, or do other parts of the dress show it? Can you show us pictures from the front and sides?

    Just as a quick fix, I would work with a seamstress to get modesty panel that fully covers you in the back. (Incidentally, if you were inclined to get creative with your dress, you could put a colored panel back there to match your wedding color(s)!) Remember, too, that a seamstress might be able to alter the dress upsized a bit. Without seeing how the dress fits you overall, I'm inclined to say it's probably all you need to do. Good luck!

     
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    vmec    May 12, 2012   Vancouver

    Since you're already somewhat thin, I don't think by losing weight it will fit, because it looks like most of the weight has to come right off your butt... which seems like a very hard place to lose. I'd say get a professional seamstress to look at it, there may be a way to let it out in some places. (and you'd for sure need a modesty panel put in...)

     
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    SeaSalt    September 1, 2013  

    Take it to a seamstress for a professional opinion. 20 pounds is a lot to lose before May. (I want to lose a little bit - only 5-10 pounds - but bought a dress that fits me currently so if I didn't, I didn't have major freaking out coming my way). A seamstress will have ideas about what your options. I think she'll be able to work with it. 

     
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    HisNightOwl2014    April 26, 2014   Wedding Bliss

    @Jlo143:  you dont even look like you need to lode weight ; ) how much did you spend on the used dress?

     
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    peonyinparis    March 2014   Beijing

    You already look quite thin so I don't think losing weigh would necessarily help, especially as you can't guarantee where you'll lose that weight from!

    I agree with the suggestion of a modesty panel (I'm kind of surprise the dress doesn't already have one) which will help things a lot. Does the dress generally fit from the front?

    A seamstress should also be able to tell you other ways the dress can be let out, for example if there is enough extra fabric in the seams to be taken out.

     
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    mrstaylortobe    July 6, 2013   uk

    @Jlo143:  

    Could you try re selling it and try getting one in a bigger size?

     
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    collieblueeyes    June 22, 2013   Canada

    I also agree with adding a modesty panel. I really don't think you should lose 20lbs. You have such a great shape right now!

     
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    fuentesbee    July 6, 2013   washington dc

    I wouldnt worry at all. A good seamstress can fix that without any problems and make it look beautiful. Many brides buy dresses that are too big or small for whatever the reason and alterations make all the difference.

     
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    ashleyr0512    April 13, 2013  

    Dont stress!! It is a little small but not TOO small. You can definitley lose a few pounds and fit perfectly in it! even though i really don't think you need to lose anything!  I found that the size i tried on at david's was NOT the size i needed to order. The dresses they try on are very streched out. I had to return mine and go up 2 sizes for it to fit the way the one in the store did. It isn't THAT much too small. very saveable! 

     
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    housebee    April 26, 2013   Charlotte, NC

    I would talk to a seamstress, they can probably let the dress out a little, and I think that would be enough.  If you're really concerned you could try to lose a few pounds, but I don't think it will be neccessary.  Allure gowns tend to run small, I fit a size 6 in maggie sottero, but my allure gown is a size 8.

     
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    eraff32    October 20, 2013  

    I agree on the modest panel suggestion! If you want to try and lose some more weight, then you can, but if you want to feel comfortable about the dress sooner rather than waiting til the last minute, take it to the seamstress asap.

     
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    cupcakebride2013    December 7, 2013   Kentucky

    @HisMoon:  +1 . That's a great idea and I completely agree!

     
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    ask a seamstress it's a corset back so you have more room to work with. - i wonder ifthe dress you bought was altered? 

     
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    rachelmichelle    March 2, 2013   Orlando, Florida

    +1 on the modesty panel. That seems to be the biggest issue based on the photo you posted. 

     
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    Sweetie Pie 21    September 21, 2013   ventura county CA

    @Jlo143:  it looks like you could just add a cloth pannel where it laces and it would look great!

     
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    Robin_Sparkles    September 8, 2012   Indianapolis, IN

    I def agree on the modesty panel. Other than that, can you breathe in it, walk, sit,etc? I don't think you should lose 20 pounds! You have a great figure. I'd go see a seamstress and see what they can do. 

     
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    Bazingau    September 1, 2013  

    Did the last bride have it taken in?  If not, there should be about 2" to let out (most bridal designers build it in for alterations).  Take it to a seamstress and see what they say.

     
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    tampalove35    September 12, 2013  

    @HisMoon:  +1 easy fix! it cann work

     
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    Jlo143    May 22, 2013  

    I am so happy to say that less than a month to the wedding the dress finally fit without any alterations! I am so happy because this truly was the dress I was in love with. :)

    @HisNightOwl2014:  i paid 470 with delivery included. Dress came cleaned and preserved. Lady at bridal store said i got a bargain because it is worth 1200 new.

     
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    HisNightOwl2014    April 26, 2014   Wedding Bliss

    @Jlo143:  go you!!! im so happy for you pics please ; )

     

     
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    lealorali    June 28, 2013   Upstate NY

    @Jlo143:  wow, great!!!!! pics!!!

     

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