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    Miss OldTownVA    May 2, 2010   Washington DC

    So, I've decided to hyphenate after I'm married.  As in my brand new sparkling married name will be Elizabeth Moorehead-Murphy.  (Don't stalk please, haha.)  It was a really long debate internally, but man... is it long. I love it, but is it a name that will even fit on my bank card or other documents? Elizabeth Moorehead was so long already!

     

    What did you end up deciding to do?  I felt so funny about it. For so long I was READY to get rid of my old name, and then when it came time to decide, I couldn't do it! It was a part of me.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I hear ya, I love my last name!  Its hard for me to get rid of it but the idea of hyphenating seems difficult.  I actually like the ring of how your name will be.  Mine would be so not 'flowy'.  I think your name will fit on documentation/ID's/credit cards.   My other concern was that with a longer name there could be more of a chance that people may get it wrong.   

     
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    Miss OldTownVA    May 2, 2010   Washington DC

    Haha I know what you mean about misspellings. Honestly, people already butcher Moorehead to death... it probably won't be too different adding a portion that people SHOULD (in theory) know how to spell.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    That's true, you'd think it wouldn't be much more difficult. 

     
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    Sharron04    April or May 2011  

    I am going to hyphenate my name....it will be a total of like 16 letters...its just so long...!!!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I'm just getting rid of my last name and taking his. I hate mine, so I'm excited to be rid of it! I love the way your new last name sounds, btw!

     
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    mikan    February 27, 2010   Bay Area, CA

    My first & last name hyphenated will be 20 characters. :)

    First(8) + MyLast (5) - HisLast (7)

    A bit long! But I like the name as a whole.

     
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    Ms.Teddy    April 2011   South Carolina

    I am definately going to hyphenate. SOs sister and I share the same first name so her name is already taken...and my last name is foreign and I am too...and it is a very much a part of me because it is different...so i really dont want to loose it! My name will be First (8) + My Last (7)-His Last (7)

     
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    Miss Frenchie    December 2009  

    I am going to hyphenate too. The lady that helped us with our marriage license said in 21 years of issuing marriage licenses she had never heard of hyphenating a woman's last name, she said "most girls just rush in here and take their husbands name". I really didnt know what to respond with. What can I say we are in a really small country TX town.

    My first(4) My last(5)-Hislast(5) ...14 letters i guess not too long.

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    i honestly think that most hyphenated names sound clunky but yours works beautifully! i am actually kinda jealous, heh. don't feel any hesitation about it, i think, yours really 'flows'.

    i've said this in other threads, but i always liked the idea of my husband and me picking a new last name together and us both changing our surnames to it. when i realized how well FI's last name goes with my first and saw how attached he was to his surname, i just knew that i'd take his. no hyphenation, my first+maiden name are clunky enough together as is. :P

     

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