(Closed) Hypothetical question – what would you do?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What would you do?
    Abortion : (67 votes)
    43 %
    Keep the baby : (66 votes)
    43 %
    Depends - tell us how : (22 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7175 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I’d keep it.

    ETA:  I may or may not reconcile with said cheating husband.  Other options:  give the child up for adoption, raise the child myself.   

     

     

    Post # 4
    Member
    514 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Pinkmoon:  I would keep it. Even if things didn’t work out with my husband, which I would hope he was very sorry and wanted to try, but regardless, I love/loved him once and enough so that I married him, so if we couldn’t work things out, we would still have a beautiful child.

    Post # 5
    Member
    8525 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Depends on how far along the hypothetical me was when this hypothetical cheating  was discovered and possibly but not likely any extenuating circumstances.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2179 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Keep it and peace out to the cheating husband.

    Post # 7
    Member
    755 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’ll speak up – Most likely, get an abortion.  However, it does depend on how old I am, and how severe the cheating was.  Like, if I’m young and it was a continual affair – he’s gone and I would most likely get an abortion.  If I’m older, and he cheated resulting in divorce, I might keep the baby depending on my financial stability and ability to properly care for the baby.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1941 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I think I would keep the baby and try to take the cheating bastard for everything he is worth in court. Lots of child support and limited visitation rights if I could help it! 

    Post # 9
    Member
    2615 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’m pro-life, so you can guess what I voted!

    Post # 10
    Member
    1967 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Keep the baby!

    Post # 11
    Member
    5408 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’m pro choice (politically) but I don’t think I would ever be able to have an abortion and not have immense regret so I would probably keep it. Tough situation though. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    11760 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    At my current age, I would have an abortion (if I knew there was no way my DH and I would stay together). If I was older and my biological tock was ticking, I’d likely keep the child.

    Post # 13
    Member
    8475 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I wouldn’t have the baby. I wouldn’t want any ties to him. 

    Post # 14
    Member
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’m CBC, so I’d get an abortion regardless of cheating husband or not. I can definitely understand why someone who wants kids would abort if divorce was imminent. I know tons of people who have kids with an ex spouse and it can definitely be a constant source of pain and drama

    Post # 15
    Member
    1409 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    Tough question. I think I would keep it. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    1781 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Incidentally my mom was in this situation without the cheating. They were havig some pretty bad marital problems and she knew it may soon be over. She said screw it and had me. My dad was gone by age 2 or so. I was a collicy baby and the first night i soept all the way through my dad asked mom for a divorce. He moved in with the lady from the 7-11 shortly after. 

     

    Me? Don’t want kids.

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