(Closed) I’m a horrible bride to be….

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
241 posts
Helper bee

Ok, it sounds like you’re going through an awful lot right now.

I can completely understand your wedding woes. My suggestion is this: Why not have a cheap, civil ceremony at the courthouse or something just to be able to get married while your Fiance has block leave (and so that you can be together) but then turn around and plan for the REAL summer wedding that you want? This way, your Fiance and you both get what you want. And you don’t have to mention to either families that you already legally got married – just treat the summer wedding as if it’s “the real thing”.

As for your hair, I think EVERY woman on the planet can relate to having a truly horrendous haircut. I know you probably think it looks awful, but to other people they probably don’t think i’ts quite as bad as you do. And it WILL grow out! Maybe try cute headbands or barrettes – or even wear a scarf! I wore scarves for about 2 months after I got my hair cut too short. No one ever asked me about it, not even my closest girlfriends. MAybe they never look at me. LOL

I’m sorry about the tumor on your back and that it’s causing you pain. Maybe this is another reason to get married, then you’d be on your FI’s gov’t insurance plan.

Things will start to look up. Keep your chin up. You will get through this.


Post # 4
2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@yellowismyfavoritecolor:  I could not have said it any better. 

I really hope that it all works out for you. Sending you some Hugs!!!

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