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    Jelly_Bean25    11-21-2009   Orlando, FL

    ...at the clerk's office yesterday.  We went to pick up our marriage license.  When she had us raise our right hands to attest to the license information being true, I started crying.  WHO DOES THAT??  Oh my goodness.  I was so embarrassed. 

    I was actually hoping to psych myself out of crying at the wedding, but if I'm crying at the lady behind the plexiglass who asks if we could affirm we haven't lied on an application, that's sad, people. 

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    I giggled...hehe. =)

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    I find sometimes that I cry at the drop of a hat (commercials, when I get called on in class, etc.) -- but when I get into a high emotion situation, I actually am a lot more composed. Maybe you'll be that way too!

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    So Cute!

     
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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY

    aww! I probably will too!!

     
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    @daydreamwanderer - I am the same way.

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    We both cried during our ceremony; it's okay!

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    Aww!  You know, I thought I was going to be a complete waterworks at my wedding.  Every time I heard canon in D for the month leading up to my wedding I was in tears.  On the actual day, I was very teary/misty right after I got ready, when I walked down the aisle, when we said our vows, and when I danced with my dad.  But, I made a conscious effort to not allow myself to "go there."  Everytime I thought I was going to realllly cry, I just started smiling instead.  It worked (mostly).  Good luck : )

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    hehe...I think it's sweet!

     
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    Br1tSh1n1ngStar    10/17/09   New Jersey

    O man, its ok to cry, your happy, I couldn't even say my vows, I whispered everything... my sister said it sounded like I was just saying ssss after a long period of silence.

     
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    eryepye    March 27, 2010   Seattle, married in Portland

    Aww, that is so sweet!  I'm with you, anything emotional and wedding related seems to get me.  If you want to combat it, try to smile--I've heard a study that your face's expression actually can affect your mood.  Although, if they're happy tears, I suppose a smile won't really help, and who wants to look angry? :)  Just embrace it, you're so allowed to be emotional with this stuff!

     
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    Mrs. Dee to Bee    January 30, 2010   Louisville, KY (Wedding in TX)

    That's hilariously cute. Awwww. That just makes me so excited for the little things like going to get the marriage license! Which when you stop and think about it, is really one of the bigger things that I'd rather not forget to do...

     
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    bvig    September 2009   wedding in NJ

    That is really sweet and I bet it really touched your FI.  I got a little choked up in the office to sign up to get our marriage liscence but no tears.  It's weird how these little things all of a sudden hit you.  I think I was so teary on my wedding day because I hadn't really taken time to let it hit me and then when it did - ah well, it wasn't too bad and people for the most part seemed to be like aww she really likes her FI.

     
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    Sage    June 26, 2010   PA

    Aww! If it makes you feel any better, I almost broke into tears the first time we met with our officiant and we were going over the ceremony. :)

     
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    Ms. Mojito    March 27, 2010   Phoenix, AZ

    That is very cute :-) And as someone else pointed out, I bet your fiance really felt special and loved it!

     

     
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    DaisyBride    June 1, 2009  

    I cried at the drop of a hat leading up the the wedding.  I'm not a crier so it was really bothering me!! 

    Never in a million years would I have thought I'd cry at my wedding.  I got a bit choked up during the vows but managed to pull myself together and finish them.  When I felt myself start to choke up I was stressing out that I'd start to bawl and be really embarrassed.  I can't remember what happened but either the priest or my husband did something to make me laugh and that's what helped me pull myself together!

    Now I still cry at stupid stuff but not as bad as right before the wedding.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    awwe I'm sure I'll be a waterworks on my big day!! but I didn't even consider the clerks office ;) that is so cute

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    aww that is cute

     
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    bkgrahamwedding    March 20, 2010   Pensacola, FL

    Maybe if you let yourself cry beforehand, it won't be so bad the day of. If you bottle up those tears, it's sure to be waterworks during the ceremony :)

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    Hey Jelly Bean!  Congrats and I hope your wedding is wonderful and all you want it to be!

    We are going to get our marriage license the week after next - I wonder if I'll cry too! lol

     

     
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    marci_607    June 25, 2010  

    Awww...I think it's sweet, too. Don't worry, I will probably cry also. ha! CONGRATS!

     
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    chicky    07-24-10   Toledo, Oh

    That is sooo sweet!! I think its just a natural reaction. Weddings are life changing events...there is a lot that goes into them..that alone I think makes us more susceptable to our emotions, but don't be embarrased to show them..your man will prob. be bawling his eyes out on the day of too..hehe:)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    That's so sweet. Who knows. I'll probably cry too!

     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    It is my favoritest when the couples are emotional. I love seeing all the blubbering i think it means they truly love each.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    That's amazing and sweet. :) I know that I'll do the same thing!!

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    I cry. All the time.

    I am working extra hard to prep myself to be one of those confident, gorgeous, happy brides who doesnt slobber all over herself through the ceremony.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I just realized its your wedding day!  Eeeee!

     
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    Akennedy01    September 24, 2011   KY

    SO and I had a marriage talk today and I called my best friend to tell her about it. I had these flashes in my mind of trying on dresses with my best friend and walking down the aisle and seeing the look on his face and I started crying! lol, even though we're not even engaged and probably won't be for another year.

     
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    firemanslady    April 18, 2011   USA

    I cry allll the time. I'm just so happy I squirt tears like it's the cool thing to do. :) I'll probably cry then, too! 

     

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