- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
I am absolutely at my wits end. I want to kick my friggin house guest to the curb!! How rude is that??
But hear me out. So my boyfriend got tickets for a concert, which is a four hour drive. Friend A lives a fair bit away so we told him we’d buy a ticket and he could get here somehow and we’d drive him to the concert and home again. That was the plan, what we invited him for and that’s all we said.
Next thing you know, he’s booked a week and a half off work. He’s our friend so of course we say if he needs to to crash on the couch, and he says he probably will a couple nights and spend some of the other ones else where. So that’s cool and whatever.
Except he is here ALL the time. Like, I have not had a single evening or afternoon or even morning for that matter since he got here. And its not just him, its other friends hanging out here too, even though they have their own houses!! They literally hang out in our carport after we go to sleep. Um.. excuse me?! This is not a frat house or a flop house!! It is my HOME.
They are loud boys, they drink every single night, they’re messy and they leave stuff around, they eat lke animals and I just cannot get a single moment of rest these days. And bcause I don’t want to live in a sty, I’m either a bitch for asking them to clean or I’m a bitch for just picking up their crap myself. Aparently wanting your house clean is a crime.
Even my boyfriend is starting to get annoyed. Finally, this evening, we both needed a break so we politely asked them to head somewhere else for the evening at like 4 in the afternoon nd I hto practically drag them out of the house at like quarter to seven.I thought I would get one single night of peace to lounge on the couch and just chill. The man and I go to bed, have sexy times and then I hear the door. Its 9:30 and he’s back, just sitting on my couch on his phone.
Ugh I can’t take it!! What happened to all these other friends to go visit? I like him, I’m glad he came to visit but I just need some tme to myself, with my boyfriend too, with not a million boys around!! I like to consider myself relatively gracious. I don’t mind the boys around, I even enjoy it on a moderate basis. But has literally been one solid week of non stop company and if I don’t get a little breathing room soon, I just may run away and join the circus!!
Am I being ridiculous? I don’t think I am, I think I’m being reasonably irritated but it’d be nice to hear some Bee opinions!