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    FutureMrsDuff    8/28/2009   Bloomington, MN

    Seriously, if Tool Academy does a season for wifes/girlfriends my husband just needs to sign me up.

    It's been 7 weeks since the wedding. I'm at the stage now where the euphoria has worn off and I keep noticing/talking about things that didn't go right. Two nights ago my husband turned to me and said, "you know, this was the best day of my life up to this point and it's really hard for me to hear you constantly ragging on it."

    Yikes, I haven't felt that bad in a while. That was a huge wake up call to myself that I really need to forget about any of the issues with that day and just focus on the fantastic day we had. I need to stop trying to "bring down" the best day of MY life up to this point too.

    Has anyone else ran into this??? Did you maybe forget that it was his day too?

     
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    DaisyBride    June 1, 2009  

    I totally understand how you feel. 

    When we got back from the honeymoon, I started to think about all the things that had gone wrong.  I started to obsess about them!  I made a decision to refuse to think about the negative things.  Every time one popped into my head, I just pushed it out and refused to think about it.  Now I can barely remember all those little things!!

     
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    FutureMrsDuff    8/28/2009   Bloomington, MN

    Thanks DaisyBride, I'm really glad to know I'm not the only one. I'm definitely following your lead and just refusing to think about the bad.

     

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