I am alone

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
3006 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Totally NOT horrible! I LOVE when DH has “guys night” or goes away for the weekend or whatever. I *love* sleeping in our bed by myself, watching trash TV and eating icecream while gabbing to my girlfriends on the phone. It’s so nice to have “me” time. I think it’s completely normal and healthy to feel this way occasionally! Everyone needs time to themselves.

Post # 4
10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Oh gosh yes… I appreciate my alone time.

Lol, and I am married.

Order in, watch Girlie Tv shows etc.

Mr TTR has at least one night a week where he is out with “the Guys”

And we both have Weekends / Weeks apart during the year where we go on Getaways or Trips with our friends.

I strongly believe some apart time is healthy for a relationship… and whenever we get together at the end of those times (even a night out) we are always very happy to reconnect / see each other again.


Post # 5
9859 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  queen sized bed was the best purchase we ever made.  We’re relatively small people and even for us a full/double is too small.

Post # 6
1134 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  You’re not terrible! It’s good to spend time apart and have your alone time. I’m alone tonight too! FH is out with his friends.

Post # 7
1599 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

omg not terrible. My husband is out tonight with our mutual friends because I am totally exhausted and need a night alone with the tivo. I’ll be in REM sleep before he gets home.  I cherish these nights!

Post # 8
2706 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@LadyBlackheart:  No you are not horrible. I think most of us feel that way occasionally.

Post # 9
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@LadyBlackheart:  You’re not a horrible gf at all. Everybody needs space and time for themselves. I look forward to the couple of hours every night that I have alone before FI comes home. 

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