(Closed) I am confuse..I feel like breaking up.

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My advice: Stop booking vendors. Don’t make any more wedding plans until you get this sorted out one way or the other.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ashmouss:  Did he give a reason as to why he doesn’t want to move to be with you, to your place?  Is his mother influencing him?  If she would be living alone after he leaves, maybe that makes her feel nervous or upset.  Can he come stay with you for a little while, temporarily, as a test to see how it works out?

Don’t give up quite yet, maybe there is room for compromise here. 

But I agree with FutureMrsTapp:  to hold off on booking wedding vendors until you get this sorted out.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Doesn’t sound like a good situation if you move or even if he moves with you.Its seems as if either way he’s going to latch on to you. If wanting to marry you and loving you doesn’t want him to get a better job and compromise just so he can have you in his life, doesn’t sound like it’ll get better later. 

Post # 6
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557 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would put the brakes on. He doesn’t sound very mature and I’m afraid you would put yourself in a mothering role with him if you marry him.

Post # 7
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818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

He’s showing you all the signs that he is NOT ready and too immature to take this step with you. I am not saying he doesn’t love you, but when a man is in love with a woman, he wants to be a better man. period. I am not saying that a relationship shouldn’t have compromise, but it seems he is just not ready. Stop booking vendors and read your post. If you read this post on Weddingbee, what would you say to this bee? As hard as it is, I think you know.

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