(Closed) I am done with him!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

((((((Hugs)))))) to you. I am so sorry you are going through this.

Good for you for standing up for what is right for you. 

Now is the time to call a family member or close friend. Someone who can help you pack up and move out. Someone who can help you stay strong and move forward.

Stay strong, focus on your family and friends, and do what is best for YOU. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That sure is one of the signs. Good on you for making the right choice. You definitely have the right attitude about it all. It will be hard for a while, but it will be worth it. Cheers to your new life!

Post # 5
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1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@done:  better you find out now than later. a wedding, divorce or maybe even kids later. you think your happy until a situation brings you to your boiling point. i had been through this with my ex boyfriend of 2.5 years off and on. just get out now while you can. everything will fall into place i promise !! what did he say when you gave him the ring back, anything ? i really pray he never hit you.. (been there with the ex too)

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Good for you! I wish I would have had the strength to do what you are doing before I married my first husband. You deserve more and you are awesome for going to get it!

Post # 7
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this right now, but I’m proud of you for recognizing that this relationship isn’t what you want and having the courage to walk away from it. Like KatNYC2011 said, surround yourself with family and friends and people who support you in your decision. I wish you all the best and hope that you keep standing your ground!

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

you are SO brave! good for you. Well done! xx

Post # 9
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3265 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Wow. You’re definitely making the right choice. *hugs* Sorry it all happened like this.

Post # 10
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599 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

(((((hugs))))) well done for being brave and speaking up and having the strength to decide to put an end to it. Sending lots of good thoughts your way as I know it’s not easy to step away from a situation like that. xx

Post # 11
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2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m glad you got the strength to do what is right. Stay safe.

I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for years. One of the best things I did was finally tell my best friend what was happening. You’ll be suprised what they might already know.

Post # 12
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3121 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You sound so strong and level-headed.  I’m really proud of you!  HUGS!!!! 

How did he react?  What’s going on now?

Post # 13
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468 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Centro de recepciones Los Incas

so ssorry,  just curious how did he react when u gave the ring  back?

Post # 15
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Brave and strong girl and it sounds like you are making the right decision.  Kudos to you for standing up for yourself and doing what will make you happy in life.  We are here for you!

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry this happened, but I’m gla you stood up for yourself. Stay strong and know that you’ve got a lot of good vibes being sent your way!

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