Post # 1
The Robbins Brothers store near me is having a valentines day after hours promotional party. i woke up at 5:00 PM (i am a night owl) and i saw a post on facebook taling about it. it said it was form 6-8 tonight! but me and D didn’t have any plans so i asked him to go with me because i couldn’t find any friends to go last minute. And he’s planning on proposing soon so why not look at a few rings and eat free chocolates and get a free message! he was playing video games when i asked him. i told him we could stay for a short time it wouldn’t take long. he said NO he’d rather not right now. i’m bummed. why wouldn’t he sacrifice an hour of his time when he ain’t doin s**t any way? i know he could tell i really wanted to go. boo hoo!
Post # 3
PS i do this all the household chores not because i have to but because i want to show him that i am willing to sacrife my time and put effort into this relationship. do i want to do that stuff? heck no!! then i ask for him to sacrifice one hour and-oh-he doesn’t feel like it…. man i’m angry haha can you tell! can any of you bees relate?
Post # 4
Awww, hope you feel better! Girl, you should have went by yourself. Honey please a free massage, chocolates and all… it would have been a nice little outing for you. If he was having ‘down time’ I can understand why he didn’t want to go. He was trying to play his game. I can also understand you wanting him to put down everything he is doing and go off to the store with you.
We are ‘in waiting here’ and must learn that marriage is give and take. Sometimes hubby to be, and HUBBY will not want to do exactly what we want to do and when we want to do it. We can’t have a fit and fall apart. Either go alone or find something to engage your time in until he finishes that game.
🙂 In a perfect world he woulda dropped that control and raced off to the jewerly store to find…. you an e-ring, have chocolates, and get a massage. In real life… your man just wants to chill… knowing he has a good video game and his lovely “future wifey” close nearby.
Post # 5
@Impatiently waiting: Maybe he has the ring already. He wouldnt need to go look at rings if he has it already.
Post # 6
Tell him how it made you feel. It is possible he already has a ring, or at least one in mind so he doesn’t want to get side tracked but if he hurt your feelings, you should definitely tell him so next time, if the answer is a no, he can be more aware of how his message is being delivered.
Post # 7
@armychica06: ummm…. i can sure HOPE he has the ring already! haha! but i don’t think so