I am guilty- I stared at a bump and asked!

posted 4 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
4691 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@candy11:  Glad that she was pregnant.

Post # 4
800 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

people get upset at people looking at bumps now? holy crap. 

Post # 5
1129 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@candy11:  you noticed but no one knows or what?

In my school there was this girl who approached to a classmate and asked: You are pregnant, right? My classmate was like: O.o hell no!

But then she tested and she was actually pregnant.


Post # 6
2058 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kaylee26:  +1 risky business asking a woman if she’s pregnant 

Post # 7
723 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kaylee26:  i’ve gotten asked this when i wasn’t. i am still horrified by it years later!

Post # 8
2305 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@AnaA:  LOL this totally made me laugh. The gif was just perfect.

Post # 9
6209 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@AnaA:  that is creepy! i guess that woman can take pride in being the absolute first one to know!

Post # 12
489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I was walking with a friend a few years back. We were crossing the street talking while she smoked when a lady started screaming at her for smoking while pregnant. She was not.


Unless as it it stated I will not ask. 


Post # 13
3733 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

It kills me not to ask! There was a girl at work who I knew was trying and I also have never seen turn down wine. She didn’t drink at happy hour and then 2 months later her boobs were big and she looked chubby in the gut. It killed me not to ask, but a month later she finally announced she was having twins 🙂

Post # 14
4438 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@candy11:  I dont think it’s a big deal at all when ppl look or ask! I think she is probably glad you asked- she got to confide in you about her pregnancy during school worries.

Post # 15
1912 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I work at a preschool so women are ALWAYS! pregnant

Hard to remember who’s preg and who’s fat

Post # 16
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m of the opinion that you shouldn’t ask. Period. Another woman’s uterus is not up for discussion unless she’s started the conversation with you. You also don’t know what that woman is going through. Perhaps she is ttcing but having a hard time conceiving or maybe she has recently or is experiencing a miscarriage. Asking her that question can bring up negative feelings for her. Bottom line – its none of your business.

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