I Am Over DH's Illogical Tantrums

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
2778 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Is there a chance he’s lying and didn’t do what was needed to sign up for the insurance, so he doesn’t *have* a card/proof to show you?

Post # 4
1660 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

What the hell?! How disrespectful of him. 

Post # 6
2778 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Is he the kind of person who maybe procrastinated and procrastinated and didn’t turn in the forms the way he was supposed to? And now he’s embarrassed for being a slacker? (I know this is probably a long shot, but I’m trying to come up with some explanation for why he wouldn’t just give you the darned account number or whatever.)

Post # 7
9107 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

He can’t willingly give up insurance and get new insurance on the exchange until they are open again in November. Only special circumstances qualify right now,so he better have insurance of his own. Looks like you might need to call the hr people at his job. Sigh.

as for why he’s acting this way, idk. It seems immature and defensive. Let’s hope he has a good explanation. 

Post # 8
6018 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Sorry but I’d go in his wallet and pull out the card and make a copy.  The whole thing is stupid, and if he won’t volunteer it … eff it I’d just take it.  If you can’t find one…. I’d call his employer/and or insurer and get a replacement card.  You know all his personel info.  

Post # 13
2170 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

LittlePumpkin:  oh girl I totally agree!!!!! My husband would be in the doghouse if he said that and he knows it. He’s being a douche and if I were you I wouldnt be able to bite my tongue. I’d ask him what the hell he meant by that?????!!!!!

Post # 15
970 posts
Busy bee

LittlePumpkin:  from your title it sounds like he has irrational tantrums often? are issues like this a regular thing?

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