Post # 1
He was pursueing me for about half a year. I do not know much about him, so i said i need time. I did not refuse him. We keep in touch with each other for several months. I decide to accept him recently, while he told me yesterday he gave up. Then i said OK, i cried after that. He said his family wanna him to find a Girlfriend in his hometown (we are not in the same area). Is it a believable reason?
Post # 3
He probably just got tired of waiting I’d say, but he could have asked his family and they maybe do want him to find someone closer to where he is.
Only way to find out is to talk to him further if you really want to know. Otherwise, I would let him go and don’t pursue this anymore. If you had to think about it after you got to know him, he probably isn’t a guy you really want to date.
Post # 4
@megz06: i wanna forget about this, regard it as a joke. Maybe he said this cause of he did not love me. I should be thankful to him that he told me before i accept him. Although feel hearthurt, i will not pursue anymore. When friends asked me about this, we talk, sometimes i think he was kidding me. Anyway, let him go…
Post # 5
@Vicky88: Hugs!! I’m so sorry you are hurting. Yes, it is a believable excuse that his family is influencing him to find a girlfriend close to his home.
However, if you really care for him try to find a way to stay in touch with him. Don’t give up just yet. Now that you told him you have decided to give him a chance, it might make him very happy. He may not really have given up, so give him a little time to think.
Keep in contact with him if you can. You never know, it might work out.
Blessings to you, my dear. I hope it works out for you.
Post # 6
@Sunfire: dear, i have to give up. he has girlfriend. i even know nothing about that, so stupid! liar…How can he do this? persue another girl when he has girlfriend, disgusting. He said he loved me, who knows, who care. I was thinking about giving him a chance in my first post. Now, never, don’t say SORRY, never forgive!