(Closed) I am second guessing everything!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3943 posts
Honey bee

@MapleCreekBride:  I second guessed almost all my decisions too, but you have to learn to just move on. I’m sure your dress is beautiful, so stop looking at the other picture. And as far as the bridesmaid dresses go, just let that one go. In my opinion, its more important to have happy bridesmaids than to fight over a dress. It seems like one of those big decisions while planning but on the day of my wedding the BM’s could have been naked and I wouldnt have even noticed. My head was spinning all day. The pictures will look perfect and your vision won’t be ruined.


Post # 5
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Bostongrl25:  She’s right!

I had a period of maybe 2-3 months where I was questioning everything.  Was the dress okay?  Did we pick the right colors?  Maybe the invitations should have looked X instead.  What was I thinking about the bridesmaid dresses?  It’s human nature to question things for a day that has so much emotion and exciting packed into it.

Don’t go backwards.  Play the hand you have right now.  Worrying or trying to change things will just stress you out.

As for the dresses– lighter and darker variations on a single color seem to be a growing trend.  Maybe find a sash and necklaces several shades darker than the dress to bring in the darker color.  It’s good to give in on some things, and don’t drive yourself crazy with “what-ifs” you could play that game forever.

Post # 6
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Try to remember that most dresses aren’t as beautiful or as ugly in person as they appear in model photos mean to sell the dress. 

Post # 7
2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MapleCreekBride:  I definitely know how you feel.  I posted about Bridesmaid or Best Man Dress Regret earlier today… I wish someone would just come and make all my decisions and they would magically be within my budget!!! haha…

Post # 8
2335 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I started second guessing all of my ideas at the 6-7 month mark…which is exactly where you are right now.  Trust your original feelings.

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