(Closed) I am so apathetic right now

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
132 posts
Blushing bee

Oh man, you sound exactly like me.  Well, minus all the family drama, since thankfully there hasn’t been much of that so far. 

I wanted a small, intimate ceremony followed by a dinner reception.  Nothing weddingy, really, just wanted to be able to include immediate family and closest friends.  Now, we are having an event.  It’s starting to seriously stress me out.  But it’s what fiance wants, and it’s his day too, and we are kind of set on doing it this way now. 

With the family drama, though, I can totally understand how you feel.  I would not be excited about my wedding either with all that going on.  Just try to hang in there as best you can until it’s over, and focus on the exciting part:  at the end of it you get to be married to your fiance.  It’s just something you have to get through for the best part to begin. 

Wish I had something more constructive to say.  Just wanted to commiserate and offer some warm fuzzies that will hopefully brighten your day just a bit. 

Post # 4
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2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Aww! I am sorry you have no gf’s nearby. If it helps I am feeling apethic too. I have been to sick to get much done. Today I couldn’t make it down the aisle in my pj’s. I just don’t have the energy.

Post # 5
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

You could always elope now, and then do a reception later on, so you both get what you want

Post # 6
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2018 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

First off, hello date twin:) You don’t say how many people you are supposed to be inviting, but is there a way to trim the guest list and have something halfway between an elopement and a regular ceremony?   That way you both get a little of what you want. He gets the feel of real wedding and you don’t deal with so much stress and preparation.

And right now you may feel like it’s any other day, but no matter what kind of ceremony you end up with, by the time that day dawns, it will feel special.  The good news is, you are excited to marry him and that’s the most important part.

Post # 8
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2018 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@SimplyChic11: 50 is pretty manageable and yay for not having cold feet! I have a very strong feeling you will be really happy and manage to have fun, even if your family and friends aren’t going to be represented.  Sorry about your family-that is a bummer:(

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