(Closed) I am so upset right now (long)

posted 7 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow..I’m sorry to hear this…. My heart goes out to you. Just hang on and know that it wont be forever. Try and do something that will get your spirits up…Watch a funny movie, listen to some good music, make a fun date night with your FI… Best of wishes to you!!

Post # 4
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

im sorry to hear about the change of plans and i can understand how heart sick you are feeling

try to relax, the time will go super fast – i know this doesnt help you right now so vent away and while you can enjoy the aussie summer

Post # 5
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503 posts
Busy bee

I know how this can be, because I moved away from the only place I’d ever know to be with an ex. Just be thankful that there is a move back day coming, and that this isn’t a permament thing!! April will be here before you know it!

Post # 7
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

yeah, the commute in sydney can kill you and this weeks heat isnt helping

try to take it a day at a time – it wont be long before you are suffering a chicago winter and wondering why you are living there 🙂

 

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper

OMW! I can totally relate! I did the same thing for two months last winter to spend time with J! We were in an international LDR, and I had two months of vacation time, so I came and sat, alone, in his studio apartment while he was teaching/coaching/at grad school/gone all day! It was rough. I mean, it was amazing for the 2-3 hours we got to hang out in the evenings, but all day? ROUGH!

I can’t imagine doing that for six months 🙁 Or unexpectedly having to extend!

Would it be an option for you to move back to the States earlier than him, to start working, find an apartment, get settled in, etc.? Or to take a vacation to visit family and break up the monotony?

I do think it’s important to have something to occupy yourself with. It may not be realistic to find work, but can you volunteer somewhere? When I was in that scenario, I had just become a Hive Hostess, and as silly as it sounds, I found a lot of my “purpose” in volunteering my time in that way, haha.

Post # 9
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Helper bee

im sorry youre going through this, in about a years time il do the exact same thing as you have done, but its permanent….leaving my whole life behind me so i can be with my SO, its worth it but u worry about making friends etc… id talk the head of you if i know you, or if im drunk:P but if i dont know you i wont talk to you at all,im so shy its embarrassing!!! and!! i have noqualifications, so good look to me trying to find a job:S

Post # 10
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167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

🙁  i’m so sorry you are going through this. but maybe you could move back a little earlier than him? if you still plan to come at the end of Feb then you could get settled and started working and he would be with you again in 6 weeks. I know that’s a long time, but you would be busy unpacking and nesting so I think the time would go by fast. My fiance lives in England and i’m in Texas but we use a webcam in the evenings so its SORT of like we are spending time together, it helps when we are apart, even if i’m just reading and he’s watching TV, at least he’s there. You could do that maybe?

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