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posted 1 year ago in December 2010
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    AngieN    December 31, 2010   Phila

    I have a list of things to do and absolutely no time.  My sister's 40th bday party at my house is next Sun.  Christmas eve dinner at my house is the following Fri.  My FMIL is making pew bows that I hate.  HATE HATE HATE.  I wanted Xmas luminaries on the aisle of the church.  She bought vases with glass beads that have to be assembled.  I didnt want centerpices.  She insisted.  Now everything is in my basement and I dont have time to assemble them.  Oh and who is taking them to the venue.  I have not finished my Xmas shopping.  And when will I do that?  Not sure becuase my FI agreed to go to his friends ornament party tomorrow.  Oh and did I mention that my boss has a new boss who has made it pretty clear she's happy with my plans.  Last year I had a 5 on my evaluation.  This year I was a 4.  But I actually executed the plan I had come up with the last year that was so brilliant.  The execution of which the ENTIRE company needed to happen for the marketing of our product - and others had tried 3 years in a row previously without success.  I was already told by my boss' boss not to apply for a job I wanted because I wasn't qualified (I am and held the position before in a previous job) - oh and at least 20 people have asked me why I am not in that position.  And here's the kicker.  My FI used to work for this person and thinks she is brilliant and I just dont know what I am talking about.  Oh and to make it EVEN worse...I need to come up with a plan for another part of the product rollout (already done 2) that has to be approved by Jan 4.  I am off after Dec 27.  And I am the only one who can do this.  OMG OMG OMG. 

     
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    ms.moonlight    April 2011   MN

    Breathe.

    My passive agressive advice about the pew bows and centerpieces that you hate is to not assemble them. If someone else picked them and wants them, they can make it happen. If there is something that you can pull together that you like more and will cost less of your time - physically and emotionally - maybe you should try it. My more responsible advice is to ask for help getting things done and perhaps see if there is a way to make them less offensive. :) Either way, you still have about three weeks. Ask for help if you need it - either way!

    Breathe!

    You sound like an intelligent person and will figure out what needs to be done at work.

    Breathe. :) Hugs - and hang in there.

     

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