(Closed) I asked if I was freaking him out

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@jouissance:my fiance loved to watch that show be we were even engaged, I didn’t think anything of it at the time so really. I’m sure he didn’t mean not wanting to marry you by that comment but what ever makes you happy makes you happy. I mean my fiances mom thought I popped the question a little early. I saw it more as I knew what my heart was telling me so I went with that.

Post # 4
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

Sound like you should be talking to him… about what he wants and about what you want.

Post # 5
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15 posts
Newbee

LOL I watch that show all the time, even before I started seriously thinking about marrying my guy. He knows I watch it and he just thinks it is a cute “girl show.” I didn’t ask him if it freaked him out though… But yeah, you should talk to him!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am concerned by his comment. What did he mean by “… doesn’t mean that you’re getting married.”

I mean, have you guys talked about what you ideally want in your relationship and does he know you want to have kids by 35 but still want to enjoy married life before that? These are very important points that he needs to know if he doesn’t already. I agree what you mean about being 28 and not wanting to wait any longer that you’ve had to. (That was my boat!)

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yeah… that would concern me.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am concerned by his comment. What did he mean by “… doesn’t mean that you’re getting married.”

I mean, have you guys talked about what you ideally want in your relationship and does he know you want to have kids by 35 but still want to enjoy married life before that? These are very important points that he needs to know if he doesn’t already. I agree what you mean about being 28 and not wanting to wait any longer that you’ve had to. (That was my boat!)

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