(Closed) I blabbed!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1278 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

hehe I dont think there is anything really wrong with telling your best friends about your plans!

There is nothing better knowing that those closest to you approve of what you are doing and love your partner just as much!

Post # 4
1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Oh dear. That’s fantastic that you’re so positive that it’s going to happen! I think that if they were anything but happy for you they didn’t deserve the spot you’re going to give them in the wedding.

Post # 5
1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  That is a hard thing to keep from friends! I know that I would have people ask me when my SO was proposing, and I gave away more than I intended. I said that he would propose by the end of the summer. I was afraid that when I would tell people, they wouldn’t be very excited, or they would say, “It’s about time,” and that’s all.

  However, when he did propose and we told our friends and family, they were still just as excited as they would have been if I said nothing! At some point, I think they had all realized that we had been together for so long, it was inevitable. So, hopefully that is a little reassuring!

  Good luck! You’ve made it halfway through the month! Waiting is so annoying!

Post # 7
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

personally i wouldnt tell friends until AFTER the proposal because npw they are waiting for the proposal too..so now u want him to propose soon not just for u but so u dont have to keep xplaining to them why he hasnt done it yet

Post # 9
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

I understand where you’re coming from! You’re close to them and it would be hard to keep the secret.

However, the flip side is they are going to be asking you constantly now…which could be really annoying if he doesn’t propose right away. Which is sounds like he will. God willing. My fingers are crossed for you.

Post # 10
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think that since you told them you’d let them know right away when it happens, they’ll just be allies in your waiting. The good part about having your best friends know is that you can talk about details with them and have friends to bounce wedding ideas off of. Yea, they’re not going to be shocked when you tell them, but I guarantee they will still be just as excited for you. Here’s to hoping you can tell everyone soon!

Post # 11
2305 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Its fine I’d probably do the same. Besides its coming soon, so its fun to get all excited with friends.Laughing

Post # 12
841 posts
Busy bee

Congrats!!! 🙂 There is nothing wrong in being excited and wanting to share that excitement with your closest friends >.<. Honestly, I think every girl that knows that a proposal is coming ‘spills the beans’, lol.

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