(Closed) I call shenanigans….

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry all that stuff is happening!  Maybe it will easier to figure stuff out once you get back in the states.

Post # 4
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

That is sketchy. If it was just one vendor backing out, I’d say, “That sucks, flaky vendor, better to know now.”

Something isn’t sitting right to me about both the venue and the photographer backing out with a contract for the photog and a DEPOSIT for the venue.

Total long shot and I expect the answer is no, but is there any chance someone stateside (family member that is ticked about the ceremony or something) called the vendors and told them “The wedding date isn’t even set, you should cancel,” trying to force you to change your plans? Like I said, really off the wall and would be CRAZY if that happened, but it really is odd that you had contracts and a deposit and both of them pulled out…

Post # 5
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185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That is completely crazy …. really what are the odds of that happening with TWO vendors?  I’m really sorry.  That is so stressful. 

Do you have anyone in the states you would feel comfortable asking to help you with vendors, until you are back in the states?  It would be alot to ask of someone but it may help things go smoother? 

When do you come back to states?  Is it soon or right before the party? 

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