I cancelled the wedding

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I think this is a good thing. Sounds like you managed to get out of it just in time! Sorry about your unrealiable friends.. that sucks.

I think you will enjoy this smaller wedding much more!

Post # 4
2 posts

Oh my goodness I am so sorry!

I cannot believe your bridesmaids did that to you, especially the one with the baby shower. I cannot imagine someone doing that to me and not expecting me to be upset with them. What friend does that? 

I know sometimes people dont have much money to buy the bridesmaids dress, but if it is the case they should have at least talked to you about it instead of just kinda blowing it off. Same goes for the groomsmen… “Cant be bothered to pick out suites”.. REALLY?

And people not giving you an address to even mail invitations to them? Anyone who didn’t give me someplace to send them an invitation (unless I chose to hand it to them in person) would be off the guest list after asking the 3rd time with no answer.

I think you are right to do a small getaway wedding with only the few people you know you can depend on. Just another reason I will never, ever even try to have a large wedding.

Good luck and I hope things go well for you here on out.

Post # 5
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@ILoveMyKorat:  That’s got to be a relief! Now you get to actually enjoy your wedding day 🙂

Post # 6
1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@ILoveMyKorat:  Wow, I’d be stressed and unhappy too, that’s crazy! Sounds like you made a good decision. When you do get married and you do it the way you want to, you’ll just look back at all this and be grateful you canceled it all.

Post # 8
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@ILoveMyKorat:  We started off with a local wedding and ended up cancelling the whole thing within a week. We decided to have a weddingmoon and we couldn’t be happier with the decision. I’m sorry your friends disappointed you, but you’re right – the most important part is your FI and you will always have him. A beach wedding will be perfect and the resorts do most of the arrangements for you. I think you will be happy with the stress free option.

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