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@ krystlew - if you don't feel good about it, perhaps you could speak to her about it?
I did have doubts about a few months ago because we were starting to argue about our view about certain things. Mostly non wedding related. But I realized that I chose her as a MOH and I didn't want her to regret accepting to be my MOH... and I didn't want to ruin our friendship. So I talked to her about how we've been arguing and that I don't want to argue anymore. It's gotten better. Although there are something that kind of annoys me but I can't really do anything about it. She has to work so she can't make it to my rehearsal or the luncheon.
I did talk to my sister about it and she had some prespective. She said that my brother in law no longer talks to his best man. She says that things change, friendships change and life goes on. She said that when I first chose her to be my MOH, I had my reasons. She said to just keep reminding yourself why you first asked her. Then before you know it, it will be your wedding day.
I've also regretted some of my choices for bridesmaids but I didn't want to be that person to cause all the drama. So I've stood behind who I chose to be in the wedding party to this day.
Um... how awful for you!
Can you make her your Matron of honor & get a new Maid of honor? She can still have an "of honor" title, but this way you can get your new Maid of honor to handle the MOH responsibilities!!
If your cousin is bothering you & you literally can't stand her: you need to change her role in your wedding. You're 8 months out & she's only going to get more on your nerves the closer you get to your wedding day!
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I'll keep this short...
My MOH is my cousin. And I felt a pressured for her to be my MOH since I am hers.
Any one else regret your choice in MOH?!?!