I can't be the only one… Right? (way TMI)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@smashwey:  wax!! It doesn’t totally eliminate the stubble/hair problem (because your hair has to be long enough to wax) but after time, the hair starts growing in finer and more sparse. I’ve been getting brazillian waxes for over a year now and I love it! I would say the quantity of my pubic hair as decreased by at least 1/4. Sure it’s not the most awesome experience in the world, but the pain is temporary. And the a results kick ass. 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wax too- but make sure it’s a hard wax not the strip wax (hurts less, less irritation!)

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Disney

Change razors, or use cream.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@oneofthesethings:  +1

 

My ex wanted me to shave and I did. It totally messed up my natural bikini line so now the radius extends into my thighs (so gross). I regret ever doing it for him because I felt so uncomfortable afterwards. Now, I just stopped caring. Unless I’m going to the beach, it’s a non-issue. Remember, the hair is there for a reason. It’s to stop bacteria from getting into areas that would cause infection. Maybe talk with BF to ask him what he would think if you went au naturale with trimming around the edge?

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Invest in a good razor and use men’s shaving cream!  I shave every single day, and trust me, your skin gets used to it.  I’ve been shaving every day for two years now and I don’t get any razor burn or irritation, though I did in the beginning.

 

That being said, I really doubt your guy would notice a little extra hair down there, and I promise–he’d rather have sex with you, with hair, than no sex at all.

 

Good luck!

 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

@oneofthesethings:  +100

 

Waxing is totally the way to go. I go once every 4ish weeks (I live in SoCal, so bikinis all the time) and after about the first 3 times you go it takes it longer to grow back in and it isn’t “stubly”.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Laser…. You still shave while getting the laser treatments, but you can see where the hair doesn’t grow back. Mine isn’t completely gone, but it’s so fair/fine/sparse now that I can shave like once a week. Trust me, it’s a better investment than waxing.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I shave once a week, Sunday’s when I can take a nice long shower.  I don’t mind stubble, but if you don’t want a full shave just keep it very trimmed and that might help alot and should not irritate your skin.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

Yeah it’s very irritating and grows like wildfire LOL

its a lot of upkeep, but i do it every other day 🙂

i tried waxing but that is PAINNNNNN lol

So yeah, i  just do it every other day 🙂

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’ve done both and would prefer to get waxed any day.

But my issue is I’m cheap as shit so I don’t want to spend the money to wax.

So I wax the areas that I can myself and shave the rest. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Trimmer all the way; I can’t use a razor or else I get HORRIBLE irritation & ingrown hair.

I use this one, and it works great.  It comes with a guard and a nifty little detail trimmer.  Note that I don’t use the foils, just the trimmer along the edge.  This leaves me with stubble, but I’m OK with that, and so is FI.  I also use the trimmer on my underarms since I have the same issue there with razor irritation.  

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