Post # 1
Hi bees, I just feel really dumb and bummed out and wanted to get this off my chest…
It was a late night studying last night, I got home from school today and started doing some housework. Well I thought I’d take a peek at my dress because, ya know, it’s there and pretty and looking at it makes me feel good. I got a call from my fiance to come pick him up… completely forgetting about the open dress bag right there in the bedroom. And when he came in he saw it. Like the entire front of it. He didn’t want to see it until the ceremony… I know it’s not the end of the world but I’m just really bummed out.
Post # 3
@risingsun: That really sucks! But hey, no way will it look better on the hanger than on you, he won’t recognise it once it’s on!
Post # 4
He is a guy, he won’t remember a thing come the wedding day. In fact he probably couldn’t even describe it to you now. Don’t fret about it!
Post # 5
I agree with Treejewel19, I doubt he remembers or could describe it or even know what it was he would descirbe haha
Post # 6
Aww, I’m sorry. But seriously, he won’t remember it! I showed my FI a pic of me wearing it in the store (from the neck down) and all he could tell me now is that it’s white.
Post # 7
He won’t remember….he probably only saw a blob of white…don’t worry about it!
Post # 8
Thanks for the support ladies. He was very sweet about it and says that after the “sneak preview” he’s excited to see what it looks like on… 3 months from today!
Post # 9
I’d be so sad! But I agree with the other Bees…he wont remember it in 3 months.
PS. are you a 6.1.12 bride or close to it? Because I totally have 3 months too! 🙂
Post # 10
I agree with @Treejewel19:. Although he may have “seen” it, he won’t remember many of the details, and it will look very different to him once you are wearing it on your wedding day!
Post # 11
don’t worry! First of all, he’s a guy, so it’s doubtful he remembers anything beyond color, and second, dresses look SO different in the bag/on the hanger than they do when you’re wearing them! I didn’t even like my dress when they brought it in on the hanger, but fell in love when I tried it on…..that’s how different they can be!
Post # 12
Dresses look totally different on a hanger than on a woman. I don’t think him having seen it hanging there will hurt anything.
Post # 13
@soyjoy222 6-2-12 and I’m so excited! The 3-month mark was a big “whoa” moment.
Post # 14
He probably won’t remember it. Also, it will be different when he sees you in it, in person.
My DH saw a full picture of me in my wedding dress by mistake a few weeks before our wedding. The day of, before our first look, he was freaking out because he thought he had seen the dress and he needed to act surprised lol. When he turned around and looked at me, he was genuinely surprised!! He told me my dress looked completely different than the dress he saw, even though it was one and the same lol! Like he thought it had straps (it was strapless) he thought it had no beading (the entire bodice was covered in sequins) lol!
Guys… they don’t remember dresses well.
Post # 15
He wont remember, and my fiancee said that all dresses look the same to him. They dont pay attention to details.
Post # 16
@deathbydesign thank you, your story made me feel better… my fiance actually is very perceptive to details, but I can see that in just a quick look everything would jumble up in his head.