I can't believe this weekend

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Ugh! Sorry your SIL is SUCH a raging psycho! But it only looks bad on her.

On the other hand, congrats on your AMAZING FI and almost as amazing e-ring!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

If you only see them 3-4 years I don’t understand why you place such importance on her opinion, especially if you don’t like her & your family knows it’s all lies anyway!  Sweep this under the rug, be the bigger person, move on, & continue to celebrate your engagement & relationship :]

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

She sounds pretty evil! Don’t let her bring you down —- congratulations and enjoy every second of your engagement! She’s just being a hater!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@waitingforthering2:  First of all, congratulations on the proposal! 

Second of all, don’t let her wreck your happiness. That is what she is trying to do! She is obviously very unhappy and most likely jealous of you, and when people are unhappy and jealous of you, they try to make you feel unhappy. Don’t let her win. She is acting immature and like a spoiled brat herself! Plus she seems to love drama. I’ve known a few people like this. She has issues. Don’t let it ruin the happiness that you have. It was your engagement weekend – one of the happiest moments of your life…she knows this and seems to not want you to have that. She’s acting very selfish. But one thing i’ve also noticed is that people like that try to call out things in others that they have their own insecurites about. For instance…cheaters often accuse faithful partners of cheating because they themselves feel guilty. You mentioned that she has like FOUR engagement rings?! Who seems to be more in it for money or superficial reasons? The fact that she spends how much time searching about how much your ring costs…says alot of where her values are. Maybe she has a guilty conscience about the fact that you are IN LOVE and in love just for who your FI is and not for the money and it’s sparking her guilty conscience. These are her issues, and she wants to ruin this moment for you. Don’t let her have the satisfaction! The more happy you are the more it would probably bother her. You know you and what this is about for you. You are in love. Be happy – love what this weekend truly was about! You and your FI, your love and the fact of how wonderfully exciting this moment really is for you! Don’t let her control you. This is your moment…not hers..as much as she wants this to be about her! Take the power back and be excited! 🙂

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@waitingforthering2:  Sounds to me like she just wants to be the center of attention.  Even if this means trying to find fault with you or your FH.  Going about and talking shit about your happy time, screams a jealousy issue on her part.  That is pretty psycho to go and google info on someone just to be a wench, and to try to steal your thunder so to speak.

Try not to let it bother you.  Why people do this is beyond me.  The bottom line is it makes her look like a psycho-wench!!  

Enjoy your engagement and what sounds to be a fabulous engagement ring.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

@waitingforthering2:  First of all-CONGRATS on your engagement!!  This deserves to be CELEBRATED!!  

And second of all-What a bitter lady you SIL is!!!  I’m guessing that she is one of those people who are just never satisfied.  I mean, 4 engagement rings, she has an iPad…and she’s all worried about your business?

Even more so…Do your parents/brother allow her to talk about you this way or is she doing this behind their back?  She sounds very very unhappy!!!!  I’m sorry for what you are dealing with!  HOW UNCOOL!

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

She sounds like a jealous, assuming, bitch! Don’t let her steal your joy. It sounds like everyone else who is close to you understands, and that’s what matters.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’m so sorry your familly isn’t sticking up for you more. I bet they just don’t want to cause your brother pain– b/c I have to say, I really feel sorry for him. Assuming that he isn’t a d*ckhead, he’s got to feel terrible about her. And he’s stuck with her. 

Congratulations! It sounds like you’re marrying into a great, supportive family and that your FI is wonderful. 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

She is CRAZY.COM/JEALOUS/HATING!!! Don’t mind her, let her worry about your ring and just ignore her off of the face of the earth.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Just ignore her – she’s jealous. My FSIL googled me when FI first started dating over 5 years ago, it didn’t matter who I was, anyone who dated her brother she wasn’t going to like – just like FMIL. I didn’t involve either one of them in my wedding planning, in fact I’m hoping neither one of them comes to my DW. I tried to be nice for a few years but after a time I just stopped caring. Don’t let her push your buttons, it’s not worth the heartache. Let her keep talking.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee

@waitingforthering2:  what a freakin weirdo. Just think of the torment she has to go through on the inside though, I mean its driving her crazy. You can rest easy knowing she is driving herself insane and mad all by herself – hopefully your brother wont get the brunt end of it.

 

and congrats! You will have to change your screen name now :p

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