- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
Let me start off by saying, there’s nothing more that I hate than girl drama! (and sorry for any incorrect grammar/ typo’s..it’s late) Anyway..It’s really catty and stupid, and I almost feel like I’m being tested or something..
So my boyfriend comes from a Baptist family, who goes to church every Sunday, does a lot of their socializing there. I have absolutely no problem with this, and hang out and have become really good friends with a lot of the people from his church. (I’m not super religious, but that’s never been an issue.) I even went on their annual mission trip and helped build a church for the Navajo in New Mexico..which was really fun..other than the fact that this girl, we’ll call her “C,” kept getting on my nerves the ENTIRE time. Usually, this sort of behavior doesn’t bother me, much less get a reaction. But on this trip, I had to spend so much time with her, I guess something stupid was bound to happen!
For example: If I were to be talking about a recent movie I’ve seen and say “The girl was driving a blue car” and then homegirl chimes in in a condescending tone, “Uhhh, the car was purple..”I just wanted to be like “B*tch, shut the hell up! Who gives a sh*t what color the car was?! That’s not even the point you idiot!”..but, I kept my calm, didn’t say anything or act annoyed..which made it even worse!
Now, I know what I WANTED to say sounds a little harsh..but let me tell you..when you’ve gotten corrected about 40 times that day already..that is definitely what you want to say..
I suspect she was mad that I was rooming with her best friend and was under the impression I was going to “steal her bestie away,” or something like that..which, if you know me at all, I’m not about to “steal” your friends..you don’t own them for godsakes..and I’m a “the more the merrier” type of gal.
I see this girl quite often, and I always feel judged (not only the “friend stealing” thing, but also I suspect she holds my religious beliefs against me as well), but am nice to her for some reason. But when our mutual friend held a birthday party at his house and was standing in front of me, and didn’t even acknowledge I exist..that’s when I decided I don’t need to be nice to her anymore. My boyfriend thinks I’m overreacting..but seriously..she’s such a b*tch to me everytime I see her.
PS: I still don’t give a shit the car was purple.