- 8 years ago
So most of you have seen my posts before about FMIL. I just need to rant for a min. She had RSVP NO for our wedding, didn’t call my FI, she had been threatening all along to not come, but the last straw was when she waited until the last day to send back her RSVP and it was NO. My father actually called her to be like WTF..the way she wrote it was unclear, she filled out her name and put 0 in attending so my parents weren’t sure if she meant her guest wasn’t attending or what. So he called her, and she started in about how she doesn’t approve and how she has been treated wrong the whole engagement, and that she will attend the ceremony but stand in the back of the church, and then go to the reception and then leave, she is nuts. So my dad put her in her place, and said she is not welcome if she plans on causing a scene like that, she either comes to all the events to celebrate the marriage or she doesn’t come. My dad called my FI to give him the heads up about the NO ( they are very close). He called his mom, he was beyond livid with her, they had it out, she said that she will not be attending nor will his sister either and my FI said that she will not be welcome if she plans on causing a scene and doing what she plans on doing, he said he has no time for it and will not allow that to ruin his day. Well his moms best friends and 2 close sisters RVSP the same day as a YES. So we know this is one of her games and such. So for the last 2 weeks, his sister and his mom have emailed him and texted him non stop, harassing him. ( I mean like 100 text messages in an hour) suicide treats and the works. He has ignored all of this, number was changed and not given to them. We need to get our final count and payments in for our venue and for our flowers. If mother is not coming then we imagine the friends and the family aren’t coming either as they were all driving in together, which is about 12 people, so we need to know if we need the extra table and if we put them in our count or not. At first we were going to, but then we decided to give them one last chance to confirm their answer and if they still said no, then they will not have a seat at the wedding and will not be allowed in.
FI writes the sister and his mom and email, short and to the point. We need to finalize numbers and I need to know if you’re in or out. And that if the family and friends RSVP has changed to no, he needs to know ASAP.
The nuto FMIL writes back, a phone call would have been nice. I can’t standddddd her! She deserves NOTHING, she has ruined our engagement with her drama and BS and childish games, and hurtful terrible things she has said and she honestly thinks that she deserves a phone call. After she didn’t even pick up the phone to tell her own son she was sending back the RSVP as a NO! OMG I can’t stand these people!