I cant stand my FMIL!! (rant)

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
382 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

geez and i thought my mil was a nut,but yours takes the cake.now the shower you tell her your not the host and that the host can not afford to add more money for more people.

now im sure you heard this before,but you need to tell her to go to your FI for any request she has about the wedding ect…let your FI handle her.

let your FI know how you feel about certain things,like the food and have him talk to his mom so he can let her know that yous are picking certain foods and what ever other things you want for your wedding.he needs to tell her that only he and you are planning the wedding and only doing what you and he wants not what anyone else wants and yous are having the wedding you want,not what everyone else wants or thinks you should have that yous are inviting who yous want and can afford.period.  and that she needs to back off.

now after what she did to you i would not speak to her or have her in my presence for a long time,she needs to learn she can not do this shit to you and get away with it.

i stopped speaking to my mil because of her crazyness and lies,it took awhile but my husband stop speaking to his mom to after he relized how much of an ass she was.we didnt speak to her for 3 years or more,its been a year now she been back in our lives,we only take her in small doses,so far,knock on wood she been good but the first time she starts her shit she will be cut off.

nut people like our mil need to know they cant get away with shit and treat you the way they think they can.the only way to stop nuts like them are to cut them out of your life.if your FI wants to put up with his mom,that is his choice,but you do not and should not put up with her abuse

Post # 4
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111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Well, yours is to the point that I’d be afraid she’d start doing that at the wedding. I’d cut her off personally. That’s just insane and Jerry Springer like.

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