(Closed) I cant stand my MIL, BIL or his GF! Advice Please!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee

Well, I think that if your FI doesn’t even want his family there, then they shouldn’t be invited. If you’re both on the same page, you know…

Post # 4
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Helper bee

oh no! sorry to hear you guys are all going through it.  what triggered all of this?

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper

Sounds like you are doing the right thing by not accepting the bad behavior.  It’s good that FI is on the same page.  The further you can distance yourself from the toxicity, the better.  Best to you.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

that’s terrible! I don’t understand why people go around saying or doing that kind of stuff. I’m glad you are on the same page and hope things get better between you in the near future!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

wow – that really sucks… but, there is good news!!!!  thing to remember is that you and your FI are creating your own family unit – and you dont have to have these people involved in a daily basis with that unit.  its you and him with time share visitors so start training yourself and your FI now to have less care factor towards the family drama.

if they want to discuss something with you just flat out say that youre not interested in taking side/getting involved and keep saying that. if they want to start dramas with you, walk away because you do not want to invest any of your emotions into it

seems like you picked the normal one out of the family so i suggest the 2 of you keep being a team and put up borders against the nuts

good luck and sending hugs

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