I cant stand my MIL

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee

I’m sorry you have this situation to deal with.  Unfortunately, from experience with my in-laws, things may get worse before they get better.  It seems that your FMIL doesn’t have any qualms about getting in your business and controlling your life.  Your fiance must support the life the two of you are creating and all others must come second.  If he isn’t willing to do that, you need to think long and hard if you are willing to put up with his mom because it sounds like she will have more influence in your life than would be good for your marriage.

Post # 4
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

he always believes her and do everything she wants

This would be a major problem for me. If you guys get married he needs to separate from his family and create a new one with you. You should be his first priority and his partner. Are you confident that this will happen? 

Also, I would not include your MIL in your purchases. Why does she need to know what you’re buying for the wedding? 

Post # 5
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

That does NOT sound like a good honeymoon. Even if you got along with your in-laws, who wants to go out their honeymoon with them and share a hotel room with them. That is just ridiculous. You need to nip this in the bud now!

Post # 6
3534 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Oh. Hell. No.

My FI and I go on trips all the time with my parents.  HOWEVER, if FI thought in any sort of way that it was a good idea to HONEYMOON with his parents and sleep on a couch, I’d say hell no…and there would be no honeymoon…or marriage. I love my FILs, but not enough to honeymoon with them! 

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