Post # 1
That is my first time writting here.
So I am being with my fiancé for almost 5 years now. since the beginning I always knew that he was a mama boy and I was just fine with it. However since we got engaged she become a B$%^% with me. I saw her lying about me a few times and I always hear her trash talk me with his sister. She disagrees with everything that I like or say. She knows that we don’t have much money so she make sure to let the world knows about it which is very awkward, everyone that we see she tells them that we don’t have good jobs and don’t have money for anything. Everything that I say I will buy to my house or wedding she says that I can’t afford it. And now she booked a 3 weeks family vacation a very expensive one 3 months before my wedding 🙁 I talked to my fiancé about it, I said that we shouldn’t got because we’re not going to have the time and money for this vacation and a honeymoon, he got very mad at me said that this is our honeymoon, I told him that I don’t want spend my honeymoon sleeping on the couch of his parents hotel room. He can’t understand saying that I am being rude that his mom just book this vacation to help us out. I am not sure what to do, because he always believes her and do everything she wants. She knows him very well so she just treat me badly when he is not around. I am soo tired of it.
Post # 3
I’m sorry you have this situation to deal with. Unfortunately, from experience with my in-laws, things may get worse before they get better. It seems that your FMIL doesn’t have any qualms about getting in your business and controlling your life. Your fiance must support the life the two of you are creating and all others must come second. If he isn’t willing to do that, you need to think long and hard if you are willing to put up with his mom because it sounds like she will have more influence in your life than would be good for your marriage.
Post # 4
he always believes her and do everything she wants
This would be a major problem for me. If you guys get married he needs to separate from his family and create a new one with you. You should be his first priority and his partner. Are you confident that this will happen?
Also, I would not include your MIL in your purchases. Why does she need to know what you’re buying for the wedding?
Post # 5
That does NOT sound like a good honeymoon. Even if you got along with your in-laws, who wants to go out their honeymoon with them and share a hotel room with them. That is just ridiculous. You need to nip this in the bud now!
Post # 6
Oh. Hell. No.
My FI and I go on trips all the time with my parents. HOWEVER, if FI thought in any sort of way that it was a good idea to HONEYMOON with his parents and sleep on a couch, I’d say hell no…and there would be no honeymoon…or marriage. I love my FILs, but not enough to honeymoon with them!