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    justuhgirl    September 19, 2012  

    Or not!

    Everyone on here has been so kind in helping me reamin calm in the face of tomorrows big suprise.

     

    The boyfrined just called me and said he had just picked up my last birhtday gift (which is Sunday). He said it was the most important one and that I am going to love it. He went on for a bit about how much effort he has put into tomorrow night and my birthday. But won't tell me anything after that.

     

    He made a comment yesterday asking "well, have I fulfilled all my husbandly obligations?" Which is really his boyfriend obligations of making me coffee in the morning and letting my have the first shower. I said "yes you fullfilled them" secrelty screaming in my head "is this a slip????"

     

    ALso a question for you ladies that are engaged or married. He is becomeing increasingly affectionate. actually wanting to be held. But we haven't had sex in three days because he is so stressed out (highly uncommon for us). Is this normal, did your fella have issues such as this with the stress of an engagement wearing on him?

     

     

     
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    tara2bmarshall    August 9, 2010   PA

    We didn't have some fabulous engagement story... we knew what we were doing... just a matter of exactly when so I don't really know. There wasn't much of a proposal... just more talk that turned into a plan... a date... and in a few more mos... a wedding.

    I hope you get your proposal!!!! Best of luck!!!

     
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    Miss Bella    October 15, 2011   Blue Bell, PA

    awh so exciting!!  You have to fill us in engagement or not! Good luck I hope you get engaged!!!!

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    yay! make sure you update us regardless of what happens.

    and i'm still wait, but from other posts i've read on here a lot of guys become more affectionate, so it's definately a good sign!

     
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    justuhgirl    September 19, 2012  

    I know, I feel like I am pacing just to get through and hour at a time. We don't plan to go "out" until 7pm tomorrow. do you know how long it is intil 7pm? That is practically a year or two!

    I even went out to get my nails done. You know, just in case poeple suddenly want to look at my left more than normal.

     

    So naturally if I go to bed tomorrow night still a MISS. instead of a MRS. Nobody is gonna be happy for a while. Actually I have plans for a trip out of town from thursday morning until saturday night.

     

    Well I am going to go pace a little more to pass the eternity.

     
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    Ms.Teddy    April 2011   South Carolina

    That is really exciting!! I hope he does it tomorrow night!! If not im sure it will be a great birthday anyways :) Teddy did get really affectionate the week that he proposed (last week!) but we did not have any issues in the bedroom. He was not too stressed about getting engaged...as I dont think he realized all the planning that would start the day after! haha

     
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    justuhgirl    September 19, 2012  

    Ms. Teddy, congratualtions. That is so increadble!

     

    Glad to hear he was affectioinate thought. The boyfriend just keeps saying he is super stressed and when I ask why he clams up and just says stuff. Well, I hope stuff code for really lovely ring. lol

     
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    justuhgirl    September 19, 2012  

    I know I am a terrable speller

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    He might just be trying to throw you off.  Don't get too excited since you might just be disappointed because he could do it on another day.

     
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    fuschiasparkles    November 4, 2011   FL

    Sounds like you are going to have a fantastic birthday! Try not to focus on getting a proposal just in case it doesnt happen, that way you wont be bummed out on your bday. Today is my and BFs 5 year anniversary and I just focused on having a good time with the man I love and I feel fine, unlike my bday back in November when I turned into a major sourpuss b/c I knew I wasnt getting a ring haha!

    Lots of luck and HAVE FUN!!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Another Taurean! Yah!!(I'm on the 28th!)

    Ohhhhh! Good luck! I hope your birthday brings some ESPECIALLY good luck!

     
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    justuhgirl    September 19, 2012  

    I actually sat and watched the clock tick. I am terrible. I have to get out of the house of find someway of distracting myself until 7.

     

    By the way, the boyfriend told me he was coming home after class and that we would drive back into the city together instead of me just meeting him downtown tonight. That never happens. Also, this morning he was beyond affectionate but also sort of funny. I haven't gotten a call or a text all day, I usually get several. I wonder what that boy is up to?

     
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    Miss Bella    October 15, 2011   Blue Bell, PA

    getting ready to propose!!!!!! AHHH you must tell us ASAP!!  I've got my fingers crossed for you! :)

     
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    picturemeurs    February 2012  

    Fingers crossed but dont get too excited, Take your mind off it for a while. Who am I kidding? We all know thats impossible to do. Wishing you luck. 

     
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    Tatiepoo    May 22, 2010   St Augustine, Fl

    awwww!! my FI didn't act different at all (but I had a SLIGHT idea that it might happen!) although the ring was in his pocket the whole time he walked on the other side so I wouldn't notice! Good Luck and I hope you get engaged :)

     
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    BeachFanatic    10-2-10   New Jersey

    omg dont drive yourself crazy!! have a great time.. and tell us allll about it!

     
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    plantains    July 17, 2011   Live in NY, wedding in CT

    Fingers crossed! Can't wait for deets!

     
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    Bride_Colleen    September 4, 2010   Canada

    Keep us posted

     
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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    how exciting!!! it sounds like a proposal is coming... how wonderful for you!! :) keep us all posted, this is an exciting time! :)

     
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    Soon2BeMrsCLW3    July 31, 2010  

    how exciting!!! it sounds like a proposal is coming... how wonderful for you!! :) keep us all posted, this is an exciting time! :)

     
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    MariaPaz    October 22, 2011   Santiago, Chile

    I'm crossing my fingers for you!!

     
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    Bride_Colleen    September 4, 2010   Canada

    Is no news bad news?? :S

     
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    tytbody    July 11, 2010  

    I hope you will be happy with what ever it is he has planned. He worked so hard at it.

     
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    sweetnote10    May 5, 2012   evansville, indiana

    I cant wait to hear the update!!!

     
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    PirateJenn    June 21, 2011   Denver

    I really can't wait for the update!

     
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    menobride    June 5, 2011   NH

    Can't wait until you come back to tell all. Hopefully it won't be something else!

    :)

     
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    tara2bmarshall    August 9, 2010   PA

    Update???? I think we're all waiting in suspense!!! Hope you get your proposal!!!

     
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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    Did we ever find out?? I have really been curious about this one...

     
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    Bride_Colleen    September 4, 2010   Canada

    Still nothing

     
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    picturemeurs    February 2012  

    We're waiting on waiting!

     
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    3M    June 5, 2010   Mt. Morris

    still waiting.....

     
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    MariaPaz    October 22, 2011   Santiago, Chile

    update??

     
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    Miss Sydney    September 3, 2011   Sydney, Australia

    bumping it up - im dying of suspense!

     
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    PDX Bride in Seattle    August 14, 2010   Living in Seattle / Wedding in Portland

    soooo???? update please!

     
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    kroegerk    November 11, 2011   Arizona

    I have been sooooo curious about this!!! You must give us the update ASAP!!!

     
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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    Still wondering about this...

     
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    Cant_wait    December 2010  

    I find myself still wondering too!

     
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    Roux    December 2, 2012   Ballarat, Australia

    UPDATE! Pretty please?

     
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    bluebook    February 13, 2010   Miami, Florida

    Everyone wants an update :( 

    To the OP - even if it didn't happen now, don't despair!  It sounds like your BF loves you very much and he might just be waiting for the right time.

     
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    Miss Sydney    September 3, 2011   Sydney, Australia

    I hope she is ok?

     

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