- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
Bees, we finally had the wedding conversation and I am super excited! I had planned to do a talk today to see where we were but it came up over the weekend while we were out of town.
First things first, he wants to marry me!! I was worried he would just be fine with the way things are… forever.
But… He wants a wedding, and I don’t. I told him I want to elope and he surprisingly did not like the idea. I will compromise if it’s small and we don’t spend a ton of money, though. It was hilarious listening to him talk about his “ideas” for our wedding. Let’s just say I am not doing anything that involves wearing a helmet on my wedding day.
Then there is the timeline that I didn’t get. <sigh> I asked and he seemed to think I was in a rush, but really (and I told him) I just wanted to see what he thought because I don’t want to be waiting forever. All I could get was that he wants a wedding when it’s warm – so I assumed last meant next summer, lol, and that was that.
Lastly, there is the ring. Well, at least he knows I want one. I’m hoping he brings that up though!
In conclusion, bees, I am officially and for real waiting! And hoping that “shutting it up” will bring good things! Thanks for reading <3