I didn't know that it'll happen this soon… :D

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
230 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

@Luvdisc:  Congratulations. I know how exciting it is to take that first step, I was there about 2 years ago. People told us we were still young too… But look, I’m now 23 and he is 22. Still going strong and have our date set! As long as you are both confident in your decision, you will go far.

Again congratulations!!!!

Post # 4
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018


Post # 5
122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014


Post # 6
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Pavilion at Rocky Neck State Park

Congrats!!!! And I know where the young ages come in too. I was engaged at 18 and married at 19 (civil ceremony). And had the big wedding at 20. I am so happy for you both and I wish you the best of luck!

Post # 7
1018 posts
Bumble bee

@Luvdisc:  I don’t think it’s a matter of being too young neccessarily but if you’re hiding an engagement from your families it sounds like you’re not ready.

Post # 9
1018 posts
Bumble bee

@Luvdisc:  Ahhh I see so you WON’T be hiding the fact that you’re engaged when it happens? That’s good. Good luck!

My SO and I started dating at 16 and 18 so I totally get it. I would have married him back then too 🙂 we’re now 24 and 26

Post # 10
2052 posts
Buzzing bee

@Luvdisc:  My parents got married when my mom was 17 and my dad was 21 *mom got emancipated in the 70s and I guess it wasn’t a big deal to do this. lol

The will be married 34 years in November!

It works different for everyone bee 🙂  Congrats and good luck!





Post # 11
1190 posts
Bumble bee

@Luvdisc:  I’m from Ohio too, a very small town. I have quite a few friends that married their high school sweethearts, and still have very strong marriages. So I’m definitely not going to rag on you because it’s honestly a little bit more in the norm for us. 

On that note… yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m jumping up and down for you; I’m so excited for you! 

Post # 12
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Luvdisc:  Congrats!! The fact that your both sitting down and having a mature conversation about it is great. Your not the only one hiding the fact that engagement plans are on the way and I’m 24. I just feel that the “waiting” time is for the couple to enjoy. The fact that his parents are nagging him to do it already makes me sure of that. Your a smart girl and it’s good to see young people still out there thinking things clearly and not rushing things just for the sake of it. Highschool sweethearts can make it…met my SO at 16 and almost 8 years later were as happy as can be..so with the rate yout two are going I can see the makings of a sucessful relationship. Good luck and know you must be soo excited.   

Post # 13
8518 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Luvdisc:  Congrats!

Sidenote: I saw your user name on the board and was wondering if it was a pokemon reference, then I clicked this thread and saw your profile picture. XD

Post # 14
3097 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

Congrats!! 🙂 I was engaged at 18, married at 19 and now 20 and a few months married 😛

P.s. I also like your icon/ username hehe

Post # 16
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

@Luvdisc:  I think you guys are being really sensible, and obviously have great communication in your relationship, which is fantastic! It’s always important that you do what is best for you guys (ignore the nay sayers). My Mum was 17 and my Dad was 21 and they are still happily married 34 years later too!

Whatever works out for you, I am sure it will work out for the best. Congratulations on what sounds like a really strong relationship Laughing

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