I don't know why I am writing this, i guess i'm just down

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Lulume:  *HUGS* I’m so sorry that you won’t have your family at your wedding. Are you close to your FH’s family? Maybe you could walk down with his dad or something? Best of wishes.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Lulume:  Aww well I hope he is able to make it! You’re a strong little lady. You go girl!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Sorry you’re going through this.  FI’s family is a mess so he’ll only have a couple of relatives there, even though they just live 3 hours away.  I know it’s tough for him. I hope you enjoy your day and look forward to building a new family!  Best wishes.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Lulume:  hugs awe honey no one has normal life 

 

I think if your bother can make it he might he didn’t rule it out all together 

I think your mom is being cold so is your father 

 

I know how it feels to think about going down alone, my dad was really bad on drugs always has been though he is clean now, he and I don’t get along (he even got married this year and didnt evne ask me or tell me) I got a call asking me to call him b/c his wife wants to know his daughter and he asked me nicely to meet her as she will be upset with him if he and I don’t make up 

So basicly not normal sometimes family are who you make family if the birth given ones dont pan out … you likely have some amazing friends who would be outright honored to walk with you… also there is something strong to walking on your own and some people even walk with ther SO these days so there are lots of choice

 

you hang in there i know it sucks sometimes, I have cried thinking of no father to walk me, and the dance god that gets me every time … but it will be ok b.c. we have people who love us blood or not 

 

and think of it this way back in the day fathers sold there daughters lol least he not making a porfit off you, thats why they used to give us away, they wanted rid of us girls were not kept or valued way back when alot of ppl married were like traded for goods or land or sheep lol  

So know if you walk alone all you were traded for was heart to heart his for yours and no one is giving you away because you are going to him … thats how i look at it 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

just saw ur last post i think maybe make  sign like that you will feel better 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

**HUGS** No words of wisdom just want to send you a hug 🙂

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I”m sorry you are feeling so alone about your wedding.  The good news is that on that day you will be marrying your partner/team/family and what a gift that you have that.  My dad won’t walk me down the aisle because he is frightened of airplanes and my wedding is a DW in Maui. Also, my fiance’s mother probably won’t come because she doesn’t like me (or anyone) for him….   It hurts but at the end of the day, the wedding day isn’t about everyone else, it’s about you and your fiance and if your family isn’t supportive, it’s a reminder of how much this joining into HIS life/family is even more beautiful.

 

Hugs to you and angels on your day!

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