I don't think my bridesmaid wants to be in the wedding anymore.

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@SouthernGirl:  maybe just go out to lunch or something and talk to her and explain to her that if shes got too much going on and she doesnt think she can handle being in a wedding party right now that its okay and you wont be upset but to not leave you in the dark…the bridesmaid situation is always tough because you never want to come off wrong or harsh..and you dont want them to think that you are always just talking about the wedding or yourself. I’m going through a similar situation too, good luck!!

Post # 5
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12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2014

And your wedding is in March? You dont have much time…have you tried having your other bm get in touch with her? If I were in your shoes and this continued i would honestly just assume that she doesnt want to be involved..maybe its too much for her right now 🙁

Post # 6
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2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Gah, this is a hard situation.

To be honest, I would kind of just watch what happens over the next couple of months.  If you only expect a dress and to walk down the isle, then she can do that very last minute and everything will be fine.  It’s kind of bad she isn’t communicating, but if you don’t think there is going to be drama, don’t invite it.  If she isn’t there the day of, shrug it off and move on.

It’s not exaclty similar, but a girl who I asked to be involved in my wedding will have her first child 3 weeks before my wedding.  I have told her that she has the position, but if she doesn’t show up the day of, I would perfectly understand.  My plans are made for both her showing up and her not showing up. 

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