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    Dolldancer8    August 17, 2013   Florida

    ...to pick out a ring I will love forever...Sheesh, what did you guys think I meant? Tehehe...So I asked him for a simple solitaire with six prongs so that I could pick out a setting that I would love, and we could each have wedding bands to match. SO I have a few Questions...

    1). Is it common for his & hers wedding bands to match?

    2). What size diamond best flatters a size 9 finger? (All we looked at was 1.6-2.5 carats, but I couldn't actually get it on my big fingers).

    3). How long will it take for them to put my solitaire into a setting?

    4). Is having rings custom-made super pricy? 

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    1. Our wedding bands don't match... mine is diamonds his is plain

    I don't trust him... :  wedding engagement ring proposal propose boyfriend fh trust off Rings 083

    2. I have a 1 ct diamond and though it's a size 8 now it was a 9 when he got it and it looked awesome on my finger! Anything will look great I'm sure!

    I'm not sure about 3 and 4.

     
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    Dolldancer8    August 17, 2013   Florida

    @HappilyEverAfter54:Thank You!!! I LOVE your ring...I may just print that pic...lol

     
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    Anniebo    October 21, 2011  

    @Dolldancer8: I haven't seen many matching wedding bands but is an idea I have been in love with. I would like to see some also!

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    1). Is it common for his & hers wedding bands to match?

    Our's dont match:

    I don't trust him... :  wedding engagement ring proposal propose boyfriend fh trust off Rings

    2). What size diamond best flatters a size 9 finger? (All we looked at was 1.6-2.5 carats, but I couldn't actually get it on my big fingers).

    I think 1.6-2.5 sounds lovely.  I wear 4.25 and have about 1.3ct.  Have you seen this handy chart?

    I don't trust him... :  wedding engagement ring proposal propose boyfriend fh trust off SizeOnFinger

    3). How long will it take for them to put my solitaire into a setting?

    My e-ring and wedding band each took about two weeks to make.

    4). Is having rings custom-made super pricy?

    It really depends on what you want in it in terms of stones and metal.

     
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    abbyful    June 7, 2011   Kansas City

    Some people like matching wedding bands, but when are you really going to have your rings side-by-side comparing them? Completely fine if you want them to match, but not required.

    My rings (metal is platinum):

    I don't trust him... :  wedding engagement ring proposal propose boyfriend fh trust off IMG 2642

     

    My husband's ring (metal is tungsten carbide):

    I don't trust him... :  wedding engagement ring proposal propose boyfriend fh trust off Chris Ring

     

     

    I ordered my e-ring setting and the center diamond seperately. It took about an hour to have the stone set at a local jeweler. (Make sure you have your diamond insured first, as the jeweler will likely hvae you sign a waiver releasing them from any responsibility should your diamond crack while being reset. It's quite uncommon, but it does happen once in a while.)

    The price of custom rings really depends on the jeweler. I suggest checking out PriceScope forums, check out the vendors people there use frequently. Some do cheaper custom work than others. Remember, expensive doesn't necessarily mean good, and cheaper doesn't necessarily mean bad.

     
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    Dolldancer8    August 17, 2013   Florida

    Thank you all for your help!!! I'm SOOOOOOOOO Excited...He's tourmenting me on purpose! Lol!!!

     
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    Angelz_love    June 16, 2012   San Francisco

    lol! excited for you! our bands do match but i wouldn't care if they didnt:)

     
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    nushka    October 18, 2014  

    Any size stone will look nice as long as it sparkles! From what I've seen on this site, one of the biggest influences on stone size seems to be where people are from. I dont think anyone wants anything too far out of range.. in either direction.

    A solitare setting shouldn't take too long, depends on the jeweler and how busy they are.
    As for custom prices, really depends on the setting you choose. If it's completely covered in diamonds, that will obvs cost a lot more. Mine is pretty simple, plat with tapered baguettes and cost about 1500. I dont know if that's a lot or not.. guess it depends on the budget!

    As for matching, I will get a plain yellow gold band in addition to whatever else I decide on so we can have matching ones like our parents do!

     

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